"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Juan_Man

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Does anyone here think that sometimes not pursuing makes you more attractive to women?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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WalkingStick

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Absolutely. Disinterest can be great when used properly
 
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Warrior74

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Yes. On my second job I haven't pesued any woman. Just having conversations and being social with everyone. I've been approached by several women. Being social helps.
 
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Naughtyboy

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Juan_Man said:
Does anyone here think that sometimes not pursuing makes you more attractive to women?
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Definitely. But you have to be perceived as being attractive/worth going after
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Things that come easy to us have no value. Be a challenge and you have increased your value.
 
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Yea, but sometimes i become too disinterested lol. You have to use it sparingly
 
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