thevilittletroll said:
#1 Is your social status: are you at the bar by yourself, or are you with a large group of friends? bigger the group the better. are there other attractive women in your group? the hotter the women the better. are the women in your group showing attraction towards you? (pre-selection) are you the leader of your group? (leader of men) if you convey these things, any random girl in the bar thats not already part of your social circle will assume you have an attractive social lifestyle that she wants to be a part of before she even talks to you, she will have attraction to you before she meets you. she will wonder to herself, who is that guy? you can post up in the same spot and women will approach you all night long. takes a while to build up this kind of social circle using game.
#2 pre-selection: if you are seen at the bar with one or more hot chicks who are showing signs of attraction towards you, any girl you approach should open right up and be an easy close for you. if you are with 2 or more hot chicks, women will open you. can be done going to the bar alone using cold approach game on same night. your attraction game must be tight. when other women see a man with a hot chick on his arm, and can tell that she's attracted to him, women will instanly be intrigued to find out what it is about him that makes him so attractive. even if your not particularly good looking, they think there must be something about him, if he's already got that hot chick, i want to find out more. good game is needed, to score the first hot chick, so on and so forth.
#3 Being "FUN": anyone can do this, be the fun guy at the bar, and not caring what other people think. make jokes, bust balls, flirt with girls, being a goof, singing, dancing, drinking, encompasses a couple of different attractive traits. Confidence, being the leader of your social group, not trying to get laid, sence of humor, and that you are fun and social. you still need to use game to get laid, but this will grab their attention and give you an opportunity to game them.
notice i did not mention anything about looks or money. why? cause it doesnt matter. this is all game. if you can attract a woman in 3-5 mins, you have game. having tight game is everything. game is where it starts, you need game to accomplish all of the above, but you start with the bottom and work your way up.
1. Bar status is not LIFE STATUS. Most truly high-status men do not even bother with the bar/club scene.
2. Using PIVOTS (my concept from 1998) is great, but this is not the proper way to use them. It's not CONGRUENT. The correct way to use a pivot is to a) take her to a place where YOU hang out but SHE does not (so when she bails it looks like a breakup and she doesn't give her side), and b) you IGNORE every other woman in the place, because why would you be approaching other chicks if the one you have is better?
3. A recent study showed women don't like fun/happy men half as much as we like to think. For sex, they are dead SERIOUS as this is a LIFE CHOICE for them. Do you want a "fun" EMPLOYER at the expense of your paycheck and career? Of course not. CHicks don't either.
To the others who say intelligent men don't like running game, many do not, and that's not a choice. On the other hand, many "intelligent" men have NO CLUE what they are up against. In my youth (20-24), I was an ASPIRING WORLD CHESS CHAMPION ("alpha geek"), had studied MASSAGE and HYPNOSIS, two very complex arts women find FASCIANTING. Only music and poetry seem to work better, but my "psychic gimmicks" (tarot, astrology, etc.) would blow away some geek trying to impress my chick with his intellect or mastery of trivia.
The entire process is called MINDBUILDING, and requires development of all areas of intellect:
1. RAW INTELLIGENCE, or the ability to process information quickly, which is why women like humor, as it demonstrates the ability to think in the abstract. Many men have raw intellect, yet think this is all they need to be "smart." Not even close.
2. CREATIVITY. Also included are talents for the arts (chess, music, poetry, painting, etc.), which demonstrate UNIQUENESS, another trait women like, as you are like a new flavor they have never tried. If you are skilled in something which has always fascinated them (like d/s or hypnosis or even massage), you're IN, no matter how hot she is. I've been doing hypno since age eight. Any man who thinks he can match me by reading a few books is deluding himself. I've also taught women how to hypnotize me, and golddiggers how to hypnotize rich men out of their money. Movie producers combine status and creativity, which is why most wind up marrying and ****ing their leading ladies.
3. WISDOM. Wisdom is accumulated knowledge put in its proper context. This gives women SHORTCUTS they can use by asking you questions rather than hunting the answer down and learning the hard way.
So few men haev every area of "brains" covered that they think they are losing women to some "alpha jerk," but in reality, it's a beta like ME (or what I used to be) who has them hooked, dominated, or even mind-controlled. Just like they want the BEST in money or looks, a minddigger has the same standard for brains, and with this type of chick, the man's looks mean next to NOTHING. In 1987, at the World Open, I bagged a twenty-six year-old SHB (9+) whose college-professor, twice-her-age boyfriend thought a stupid warmup tournament was more important than his chick. Swiped her right from him.
Ray Gordon
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