Let's talk cities

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

captain55

Master Don Juan

Oct 3, 2017

1. where is the best vacation spot for a guy just getting out of a relationship? A couple of my friends and I are considering Miami. I heard the women are pretty much impossible to pull there is that true? I'm from La so I figure it can't be that bad.
2. What city do you guys have the most success in? i always killed it in Manhataan for some reason. Women flock to me there.

Any tips on miami greatly appreciated. Never been

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.