"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lookyoung

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Any chess players here. What are some ways to improve my chess game besides playing.

Chess is the ultimate mind game. I feel that everyone here should be strong physically as well as mentally. I feel chess helps the mental aspect.

Chess lets talk about it. And if anyone would like to challenge me I will kick there A$$. LOL
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Quiksilver

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Hmmm... was just about to go to bed.

Now...how to phrase this in the least geeky way possible...

I play chess.

I'd like to think I'm half decent.

If you're up for a game, I'll be more than happy to wipe you off the board.

edit: and if you want to learn how to play BETTER, send me a PM.
 

KarmaSutra

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I'm your huckleberry . . .

That's just my game. I collect chess pieces. I have a civil war set, a medieval dragon set, Samurai set and next I want a set of horror film greats chess pieces.
 
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lookyoung said:
Any chess players here. What are some ways to improve my chess game besides playing.

Chess is the ultimate mind game. I feel that everyone here should be strong physically as well as mentally. I feel chess helps the mental aspect.

Chess lets talk about it. And if anyone would like to challenge me I will kick there A$$. LOL
I'll take you on!! My memory is slipping and my visual is lacking buy I play for "fun-sies"!!

Chess is a great thinking game!!
 

Bible_Belt

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I gotta learn algaebraic notation if I want to get any better.

Not that I'm on this level, but Bobby Fischer said he got a lot better by playing blindfolded.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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lookyoung

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hey

Quiksilver said:
Hmmm... was just about to go to bed.

Now...how to phrase this in the least geeky way possible...

I play chess.

I'd like to think I'm half decent.

If you're up for a game, I'll be more than happy to wipe you off the board.

edit: and if you want to learn how to play BETTER, send me a PM.
Mistake. meant to pm. please delete.
 

Centaurion

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registert on chess.com

Look me up, and we'll play a gam if I'm online.
 

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How high does one's rating have to be to make any money at chess?
~2100. The average adult is at 1200.

A 2100 Yahoo Chess rating doesn't count.
 
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