I have few stories about the times when I NEXTed a girl. I'm sure lot of you guys do too. With all the posts about failures, negative experiences with girls, and general pessimism about this whole mating game, I figure a positive aspect, like when YOU, as a Man, actually REJECT a GIRL for reasons that sound logical and reasonable to us aspiring DJs, would greatly benefit this forum.
So, this girl I had been seeing for roughly 2-3 months, her interest level was always in low-mid range. Initially, there was mutual attraction to the point that we had sex on the second date. We are both busy people so it was always tough planning hang outs HOWEVER, she always counter-offered...although her counter-offers started getting more and more vague as time went on.
I also want to mention that MY interest in her wasn't the highest. In fact, I found myself being bored the first couple of times we hung out which is new for me because I don't like to spend my time with people who bore me. But...she is hot and good in bed so ya know...:crackup:
Last time we hung out, we met up with bunch of our friends. I was having more fun mingling with the whole group rather than just her and so did she. Fast forward, halfway through the evening, she disappears. I text her only to find out she had gone with her gfs to another part of town. The next day she texted me without giving any good explanation for why she just disappeared.
This, gentlemen, is when I decided to NEXT her. We have some mutual friends so I didn't exactly delete her number or tell her off. I actually prefer to just go no contact or cold ONLY BECAUSE I don't really care anymore. I haven't heard from her and I doubt I will because I could sense that interest level hitting rock bottom from a nautical mile away.
So let's hear some more. I will occasionally post more when I have the time but I'd rather that this be a collection of different user's stories than one man's.
So, this girl I had been seeing for roughly 2-3 months, her interest level was always in low-mid range. Initially, there was mutual attraction to the point that we had sex on the second date. We are both busy people so it was always tough planning hang outs HOWEVER, she always counter-offered...although her counter-offers started getting more and more vague as time went on.
I also want to mention that MY interest in her wasn't the highest. In fact, I found myself being bored the first couple of times we hung out which is new for me because I don't like to spend my time with people who bore me. But...she is hot and good in bed so ya know...:crackup:
Last time we hung out, we met up with bunch of our friends. I was having more fun mingling with the whole group rather than just her and so did she. Fast forward, halfway through the evening, she disappears. I text her only to find out she had gone with her gfs to another part of town. The next day she texted me without giving any good explanation for why she just disappeared.
This, gentlemen, is when I decided to NEXT her. We have some mutual friends so I didn't exactly delete her number or tell her off. I actually prefer to just go no contact or cold ONLY BECAUSE I don't really care anymore. I haven't heard from her and I doubt I will because I could sense that interest level hitting rock bottom from a nautical mile away.
So let's hear some more. I will occasionally post more when I have the time but I'd rather that this be a collection of different user's stories than one man's.