Let's talk about myspace for a min...

[BxPrince24]

Ok, now I see this with every girl I talk to on myspace. We end up sending messages back and forth for a while and eventually she stops responding. What do I talk about when I'm talking with these girls? Themselves, I ask about where they're from, if they've visited if it's not in the US, what profession they're looking to do, etc... I joke with them when it seems appropriate, not necessarily jokes busting on them, etc... But from people who have actually hooked up with girls from off myspace, what's the play by play?

It's not like when you meet a girl in person how you can talk, bust on them, show body language, eye contact, etc... So of course I'm not getting the same results but what would be a good way to go about talkin to girls on Myspace? Black girls in particular

 

[BxPrince24]

after reading my post i think i found the problem lol. Solution: End the conversation and ask for the number. Wait a few days, call and set up a date If I do receive the number.

 

[Dannyrt34]

I wouldn't know because I never tried. But I would think that girls would have a much stronger shield on myspace (due to internet predators and such). You really have to be able to maker her feel very comfortable with you.

Other than that I suggest you stick to meeting girls in person.

 

[Eccentric]

When they stop responding, don't take it personally. Just realize that all you are to them is a pen pal. C+F over email is good for LOLs. C+F in real life is a step towards getting her panties off. Chances are after she signs off, she's with guy doing the latter.

 

[logicallefty]

Make your first message to her C&F and not super long. "Hey what's up how are you?" = BOOORING, don't even bother..

Then exchange 1-2 messages each. Then ask her for number. If you are a little on the shy side about asking for the number (I used to be, ain't anymore), blame it on the computer. Tell her you have been having problems with your computer or the website you are on and you'd like to step the technology down a knotch in your conversation.. Get the number, send a C&F text message or two to her (a step DOWN from a computer), then CALL and make the date. Always CALL to make the date, that is something I have read time and time again on this site and it is 100% right. It's not my handwork but I wish it was..

Now for some stuff that IS my own personal handywork:

One other great thing to do on Myspace that has lead to me getting laid is make a C&F comment on one of her pictures.. If she is in a picture with her and another chick, ask her who the "hot chick in red is", the one in red NOT being her. You wanna talk about getting a record fast response!!

If she has a picture of one of her pets posted, go to a picture of her (not the pet) and say "Gorgeous eyes, beautiful smile, great healthy hair. Oh wait, I commented on the wrong picture. What's your brown dog's name again?" Most AFCs on Myspace post comments like that about the chicks, of course.. In your case, start off like that, but then pretend like you made a mistake, you were really ogling over the dog, not her!! Normally it leads to her asking if you think she also has those qualities, and of course, never come flat out and tell her she does (unless you are an AFC).

I have more little techniques that I use but have to run for now.. if ya all don't flame me for these I will post more later

 

[Eccentric]

Talk about Tom.

 

[Marseille]

I'll be meeting a girl from Myspace next week but I asked her out through AIM instead of over the phone. Everyone in this thread says it's better to ask her out over the phone. So I guess it depends on the girl. This particular one had her screen name on her myspace so I just added her to my buddy list and IMed her when I saw her online. I asked her out and she said yes, then I got her number. Now I'm just nervous about what I'm gonna do on our date.

Remember that she will be as nervous as you. Just dont think too much(i.e. over anaylse before hand, cos it could make you choke when you meet her), go with the flow, and the rest will come naturally. I suggest you call her though, before you meet up, as it will break some psychological ice. And if you said something funny or memorable on the phone, that could be the catalyst of conversation when you first start talking in real life.

7/10 girls on the internet are no higher than 6.5/7 out of 10 in my opnion. So therefore,i would say there is not much to be intimitated by her.

Dont worry about it mate.You got nothing to loose in my humble opinion. Worst comes to worse, at least you will have added experience. Good luck.

 

[Obsidian]

loggicallefty = xtr3m3 techn0-pimp

 

[logicallefty]

loggicallefty = xtr3m3 techn0-pimp

LMAO thank you, thank you very much!

another one... some may not consider this fair play, but that's ok.. I have been flamed on this site before for not playing fair on tactics that have got me laid, and that didn't stop me before so why would it now? anyway:

Ask a chick you know for sure you are JUST FRIENDS with to post some comments about you on Myspace as in like "OMG i had a great time the other night. you are a blast to hang out with.. When are we hooking up again??!!" Let the "just friend" know the truth, that you KNOW how women think and you are asking her to earn her JUST FRIEND status with you by helping you get the women you want.. Tell her she is SUCH a good friend and that's why you have no prob asking her to do you such a wierd favor. The favor is get you some social proof that might get you something other than a friend..

I have very few women in my life who are JUST FRIENDS, but by God, those that are, I make em' earn it.. And this is the kinda s**t I make em do.. Same philosophy applies OFFLINE. Take miss JUST FRIEND to the club and tell her to oogle over you heavily.. That has been mentioned on this site before, so doing it ONLINE shouldn't be sticker shock. It's social proof is all, fellas. Same rules apply ONLINE as OFFLINE... And trust me, it works.. The Myspace chick you like, if she even remotely likes you back, will be asking you about little miss JUST FRIEND, discreatly of course.. But none the less, she WANTS to KNOW all about it, and that's where the control switch flips over to YOU.... From there, use your imagination and don't f**k it up.. Oh yeah, and think of logicallefty when you are f***ing her... Just KIDDIN'!!!!!!! LMFAO!!!!