Let's take a visit until an avg household shall we?

[backbreaker]

The only thing that really really got under my skin about the whole experience, was the guy smelling like weed around a 10YO). that actually pissed me off.

That and the kid was fat too, and she's sitting there, telling him all the **** he can't eat. I'm like seriously you don't get why he 's eating like that lol?

 

[MatureDJ]

I mean seriously she had a cute face. but she was just fat. YOu can have a cute face and be fat.

My old roommate (she was renting a room in her home to me) was just that. A face like a model. A body like a marshmallow.

 

[Tazman]

Its all relative really. She would never land a guy in your position, and she knows this. Same goes for her man, he wouldn't be with anyone else except her caliber.

I know the frustration you're referring to though, but that's why I don't hang out with people like that. I got away from stuff like that a long time ago when I started to take life more seriously. I actually had "goals" I wanted to accomplish, lol. Some people, especially the ones who are much lower on the ladder tend to start hating on you because they're jealous and know they'll never reach your level of success.

 

[backbreaker]

here is an update, and i just had to come here and post this from keeping me from putting my foot up this woman's ass, i was so pissed off at the entire sittuation.

the woman had a computer problem, and my fiancee being who she is, recommened /made me go over there and fix her pc, so she doesn't have to take it to best buy. Anyway, I mentioned she has a son. This *****, might be the absolute worst mother on the face of the earth. not even talking about the letting your nBF smoke weed in the house around your kid.

the kid wakes up, and you can tell he is just on edge. I mean, he's just... real nervous. I'm like little nigga what's up it's saturday lol, watch some cartoons or something. So i'm sitting there working and the dude, keep in mind, he's ****ing 10, tries to make his own breakfast becuase his fat **** mom is still sleep. he makes some eggs or tires to, and he didn't clean the stove off all the way. not that big of a deal. if my sister did that i would simply go ger her and make her reclean it up. she comes out and starts yelling at him i mean YELLING at him, and he starts crying, and she slaps him. he cries more, and she tells him be quiet and "why are you always crying " ***** i'd cry to if your 300 pound ass slapped me. So she makes him stand in the corner with his nose in the corner for like 30 mintues, becuase he won't shut up. mind you all she had to do is ask the damn kid to come back and clean up. really what she should have done is got her fat ass up and cooked.

so about 30 mintues pasts, the kid tries to get the **** out the house, i dont' b lame him. he grabs the basketball, goes down the street. he leaves the door open. it's not a bad neighrboorhood. she goes down the street, makes him come home, beats the **** out of him again and makes him go to "bed".. at ****ing 11am on a saturday morning.

the kid, literary hasn't done **** wrong all day long. I came, i had to bite my tounge3 big time and just get out because it's not my place, but I damn near popped that woman for treating that kid like that. That's the type of woman who has a child that doesn't want a child. He's just there. The way she sees it, he's the reason she can't get a good man so she takes out her anger on him.

Puts things in perspective, as bad as I had it, and as much as I critique my mom, and make no mistake some of the **** she di was ****ed up, i know my mom gives a damn about me. I really do not think she loves her son.


That kid, i hate to say it, has a prison outfit waiting on him in 10 years.

 

[zekko]

That kid, i hate to say it, has a prison outfit waiting on him in 10 years

What a shame. It makes me realize how lucky I was to have the parents I did.

On the bright side, look at all the posts here talking about how so many women only want real bad boys - real thugs - real criminals. If what you're saying is true, at least the poor guy will be gettng laid.

 

[backbreaker]

What a shame. It makes me realize how lucky I was to have the parents I did.

On the bright side, look at all the posts here talking about how so many women only want real bad boys - real thugs - real criminals. If what you're saying is true, at least the poor guy will be gettng laid.

Yeah but he's already fat, which is sad, he isn't "ugly" he's just fat, he's mixed, if he were skinny or in shape he looked like he would be a lady killer, and she isn't helping his self esteem, more than likely he will end up doing drugs. That's not what I wish, I've just seen it all too often. He's already on adderall.

 

[JT7890]

BB that's the average "black" household in 2011. 75% - 80% of black households are single parents, MAJORITY of those households are single mother households. That's exactly how they treat their kids, exactly.

It's just a shame what the black community has come to. Think back not that very long ago, let's say 50 years ago, 1960's, the black community mostly resembled a collection of individuals that just wanted to be equal. They wanted to BE SOMETHING and make a difference. They wanted to be educated, get a good job, and achieve the American Dream, but large amounts of discrimination kept us down.

The black community blasted through that and achieved some form of equality, at least to the point where you are no longer hosed down on the way into the school building.

Then came the mid-late 1980's. The CRACK situation. From there, the black community ends up where it is today.

1.) Like it or not, black people get offended or not, TOO MANY young black men are thugs. They end up in jail or in and out of jail.

2.) Like it or not, black people get offended or not, TOO MANY young black women have been PROGRAMMED to select thugs over other types of black men. To these women thugs ARE the real men.

3.) Like it or not, black people get offended or not, if the black community continues like it is right now, by 2030, majority of the black community will be properties of the government through the welfare system. Which means, another FORM of slavery for the black community is created.

Black men that are educated, corporate, and successful are mocked in the black community. "Oh's he's acting like he's white!" "Oh, he's a sell-out!" "Oh, he's stiff!" Barack Obama was MOCKED by the black community when he first started running. The guy had to get on TV and say he listened to JAY-Z of all people, for the "black" community to accept him. That's not a lie.

I hate to say it, but today in 2011, in alot of ways I wish I wasn't black.

 

[Zarky]

Well, I personally think it has to do more with socioeconomic status than race. One side of my family in California is rich, the other side in Michigan is poor.

The Michigan side is true "white trash," the women with 2-3 kids from 2-3 dads, never married, 250lbs, high-school education.

The rich side adopted a black kid who is now at USC with a football scholarship and gets straight-As.

 

[JT7890]

Zarky

Well, I personally think it has to do more with socioeconomic status than race. One side of my family in California is rich, the other side in Michigan is poor.

The Michigan side is true "white trash," the women with 2-3 kids from 2-3 dads, never married, 250lbs, high-school education.

The rich side adopted a black kid who is now at USC with a football scholarship and gets straight-As.

Well yes, economic status is a contributor to this but in my personal opinion, (really going deep here) I think poverty is a mindset. Obviously NOBODY can control where and how they are born and raised, if your parents are poor when you are born you can't control that, you are going to be poor as well.

But you don't have to STAY THERE. The entire college financial aid system is designed to get poverty students out of poverty and into the middle class. You can learn another trade, you can do all sorts of things to get out of poverty.

These people have a horrible internal mental structure that's KEEPING them in poverty. It's very similar to the school structure in "these" neighborhoods. Constantly you hear about how education in "these" areas need more funding, in other words, keep throwing money at the "problem". However, the fact of the matter is that education and values in PARTICULAR, are absent in these areas. These people can care fvcking LESS about education. So throwing more money WITHOUT reconfiguring the system is insane.

If the government (taxpayers) are going to assist, we need to first unroot all of the horrible mental values that these people have. Again, sitting down and collecting welfare or ENJOYING being mediocore, watching BET all day, caring not a DAMN about nutritional eating, caring not a DAMN about education or being "wise," are all MENTAL VALUE issues in these areas. If we established NEW mental values, then funding education and funding other programs in these areas PERIOD would make sense.

But providing more funding right now? Hell no! Why continue to increase funding in education in "these" areas when upwards of 65% of black teens drop out of high school in 9th or 10th grade? Why continue to increase funding in these areas for social assistance when more and more black teens and black young mothers CONTINUE to have babies out of wedlock and by men that go in and out of jail (bad potential fathers)?

The value system is fvcked up in these areas. Until we fix THAT, we'll never get rid of poverty or "the hood".

 

[JT7890]

Double post

 

[backbreaker]

the girl is white. Like a big, white cloud.

 

[DanelMadr]

Well yes, economic status is a contributor to this but in my personal opinion, (really going deep here) I think poverty is a mindset. Obviously NOBODY can control where and how they are born and raised, if your parents are poor when you are born you can't control that, you are going to be poor as well.

But you don't have to STAY THERE. The entire college financial aid system is designed to get poverty students out of poverty and into the middle class. You can learn another trade, you can do all sorts of things to get out of poverty.

These people have a horrible internal mental structure that's KEEPING them in poverty. It's very similar to the school structure in "these" neighborhoods. Constantly you hear about how education in "these" areas need more funding, in other words, keep throwing money at the "problem". However, the fact of the matter is that education and values in PARTICULAR, are absent in these areas. These people can care fvcking LESS about education. So throwing more money WITHOUT reconfiguring the system is insane.

If the government (taxpayers) are going to assist, we need to first unroot all of the horrible mental values that these people have. Again, sitting down and collecting welfare or ENJOYING being mediocore, watching BET all day, caring not a DAMN about nutritional eating, caring not a DAMN about education or being "wise," are all MENTAL VALUE issues in these areas. If we established NEW mental values, then funding education and funding other programs in these areas PERIOD would make sense.

But providing more funding right now? Hell no! Why continue to increase funding in education in "these" areas when upwards of 65% of black teens drop out of high school in 9th or 10th grade? Why continue to increase funding in these areas for social assistance when more and more black teens and black young mothers CONTINUE to have babies out of wedlock and by men that go in and out of jail (bad potential fathers)?

The value system is fvcked up in these areas. Until we fix THAT, we'll never get rid of poverty or "the hood".

The Brazilians figured that out. Your child is absent from school, does not have homework? No welfare. Not less, I mean NONE, nada. It really helped.