Lets Settle This Once And For All..........

[LouieVaton Don]

What is the best possible/proper method to diffusing a targets shyt tests and games.

Should you show her your anger side?

*Doesnt that go against masking your emotions?

Should you let it slide down your back and act like its no big deal?

*How long until she decides your a punk and she can get away with whatever.

Should you call her on it straight up?

*Only for her to accuse you of b1tching and complaining.


I am at a crossroads, what is the absolute best method for diffusing a females unpleasant behavior. What type of attitude should you have, how should you express yourself during one of these situations. There seems to be two schools of thought, on one hand someone will say, "well if you act cold and distant(without mentioning the discrepency) she may see the error of her ways, while on the other another may say"call her on her BS right there. Hmmmm......

 

[dontmindme]

No matter what action you pick, you can't let it bother you to the point that you're wasting brain power on figuring out what to do.

The proper way to 'handle' this is to mold yourself into the type of person that can shrug at the sutation, maybe even smile, and just move on to the better things in life. Life is too short to waste it on shyt tests.

 

[LouieVaton Don]

bump

 

[Julian]

A couple winters ago me and my friend were "dating" these 2 chicks. We hung out all the time, got drunk and fucced up. Well my friends girl was always on the bullsh1t tip.

She would be totally normal, then we'd get in the car to go on a road trip somewhere she would get all pissy for no reason.

I think the best way to defuse an angry b1tch is to make her laugh. This works on everyone actually. If you can make someone laugh the situation immediatly morphs into something more manageable.

 

[WatchMeWalk]

I don't think it's a good idea to call on a woman's BS. The purpose of passive-aggressive behavior is to send someone a message without giving away the ENTIRE message. In other words, she's trying hard not to come off as "the bad guy" because her self-image is too fragile.
The best way to deal with a shyt test is to have an indifferent, "whatever" attitude and not give it any significance.

 

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