"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Let's set up a ventrilo channel for sosuave chat

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I had this idea to set up a ventrilo channel (a private microphone/speaker voice chat room type thing for those who dont know).

It would have a password which we would give out to members of this forum by invitation only. Instead of all these threads and people that talk nonsense in them, it would be a nice change to talk and such.

Karmasutra would obv not be welcome because he is a homosexuaal.

Might be a cool idea if it catches on, let us know what you think.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ive been wanting something like this for the longest time. Im def down.
 

Stagger Lee

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There use to be a sosuave chat that I think the member penkitten would set up on some evenings. What happen to having a chat room is anyone hosting a chat room anymore? Maybe it's because this forum isn't as active as it was a year or two ago.
 

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Ease said:
I had this idea to set up a ventrilo channel (a private microphone/speaker voice chat room type thing for those who dont know).

It would have a password which we would give out to members of this forum by invitation only. Instead of all these threads and people that talk nonsense in them, it would be a nice change to talk and such.

Karmasutra would obv not be welcome because he is a homosexuaal.

Might be a cool idea if it catches on, let us know what you think.

You call out KarmaSutra as not being invited then why do you call out his name at all? I think you are the homo.
 

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There is already to many crazy people on here getting into pissing contests. Do you really want to make it so that you can actually hear guys like bigjimbo ranting about how Russian prostitutes are soooo much better than American women?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SharinganUser said:
There is already to many crazy people on here getting into pissing contests. Do you really want to make it so that you can actually hear guys like bigneil ranting about how Russian prostitutes are soooo much better than American women?
This is why such a chatroom would have a password and rules for muting and blocking members. My main desire is to get away from such people.
 

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This is why such a chatroom would have a password and rules for muting and blocking members. My main desire is to get away from such people.

Oooohhhh password and rules. You guys will be awesome. You will have tons of chics by midnight. I guarantee it. Please send me the rules and passwords to my special secret email address. Here it is : *** ********
 

PDubb75

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Penkitten does have a chat. There are only about 4 of us that go to it, though. It is invitation only, and I honestly can't even remember the last time she came on. I like the chat, it's just a toss up if you will be in there when one of the other 3 people are there. But, filtering out who has access to it was a main point....
 

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Private chat is usually for people involved in illicit activities. Hackers, drug merchants, lovers of five year old boys, and credit card scammers all seem to congregate in such forums. I can remember the good old days when such villains met at Greyhound stations in the unsavory parts of town.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sue Madre said:
Oooohhhh password and rules. You guys will be awesome. You will have tons of chics by midnight. I guarantee it. Please send me the rules and passwords to my special secret email address. Here it is : *** ********
Wow man, you should lighten the hell up, sorry, I think you really should bro. Nothing personal tho.

I'm also def down for the chat, if it is by invitation only, who do I ask the invitation?
 

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oh, i am sorry i havent been online lately. gio and i decided we need a bigger house as we have outgrown ours. so i put my computer in storage so that i could get off my butt and make repairs, pack things for storage and take everyones items down to bare minimums, painted and recarpeted and planted flowers. the house now looks wonderful and we have been on the market for a week. within 24 hrs we got a signed contract for someone to buy our home, however she withdrew it within a 48 hr time frame because she is young and decided not to move so far away from her family. so we went on and just let her out of the ordeal... and are still waiting on someone to come along and love this place ... so we can get the heck out of it and into something bigger for our family.
let me get on there and see if there is anyway to bypass the invites to leave the room open for all to pop in whenever.
 

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ok i just went into the chatroom and disabled the invite only thing for right now and i think all you have to do is know the web address
http://www.chatzy.com/694429089691

so someone new has to go in and let me know if it is working or if it needs to be tweaked more.
 

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It's working. Good job penkitten! :)

I'm happy, this could turn out to be... pretty awesome actually. Considering that something crazy doesn't happen (you guys know what I'm talking about, that good old-fashioned SS drama?!).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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