jakethasnake
Master Don Juan
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... and you end up with a very hot babe. She actually has a college education (even if it's from some bimbo party school like Florida State or UC Santa Barbara), and knows how to hold a convo. You're also a pretty decent catch - you're smart, successful, and decent looking. But what makes you a SUPER catch is obviously that you're fabulously wealthy.
Do you think it's bad form to assume that part of your allure to her is the nice lifestyle and security you can provide her (I mean, isn't that only natural?) - and then tell her along the lines of, "Honey, I know that part of the reason you love me is because I can provide for you. And I think I'm okay with that."
I think that most women are dishonest enough to fake being offended, as if that questioned her character. "How dare you! I love you for you! How could you even question our love like that?!", they're likely to fib.
Riiiight -- like they'd marry you, an otherwise average-to-just-above average looking bloke with an average personality - if you had a $48,000 a year job?
What do you think? I was at a Donald Trump-owned golf course today, and the recent hoopla about his wedding made me think of what theire relationship is like. I also just saw Tiger Woods on the Golf Channel, and I thought of him and his Swedish wife (who was a nanny, of all things... definitely not capable of living well without Woods (and neither is Melania Knauss, Trump's to-be-wife).
Having said that, I also think that it's very dishonest for a man to be offended when their GF/finacee is honest enough to tell them that their success and wealth is part of the allure. Wouldn't you agree? If your GF is honest and practical enough to tell you the REALITY, you need to be realistic about it too and respect her candor. If you can't stomach the fact that you're wealthy and that women will be attracted to it, then you'd better find a woman who is as dishonest and delusional as you are. That way, you can both fool each other about "fairy tale" notions of romance and marriage..... and end up in a bitter divorce 10 year later.
Do you think it's bad form to assume that part of your allure to her is the nice lifestyle and security you can provide her (I mean, isn't that only natural?) - and then tell her along the lines of, "Honey, I know that part of the reason you love me is because I can provide for you. And I think I'm okay with that."
I think that most women are dishonest enough to fake being offended, as if that questioned her character. "How dare you! I love you for you! How could you even question our love like that?!", they're likely to fib.
Riiiight -- like they'd marry you, an otherwise average-to-just-above average looking bloke with an average personality - if you had a $48,000 a year job? What do you think? I was at a Donald Trump-owned golf course today, and the recent hoopla about his wedding made me think of what theire relationship is like. I also just saw Tiger Woods on the Golf Channel, and I thought of him and his Swedish wife (who was a nanny, of all things... definitely not capable of living well without Woods (and neither is Melania Knauss, Trump's to-be-wife).
Having said that, I also think that it's very dishonest for a man to be offended when their GF/finacee is honest enough to tell them that their success and wealth is part of the allure. Wouldn't you agree? If your GF is honest and practical enough to tell you the REALITY, you need to be realistic about it too and respect her candor. If you can't stomach the fact that you're wealthy and that women will be attracted to it, then you'd better find a woman who is as dishonest and delusional as you are.
That way, you can both fool each other about "fairy tale" notions of romance and marriage..... and end up in a bitter divorce 10 year later. 
