"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Let's say I'm a month into school and I only got one AIM name

Black Casanova

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I;m assuming it isnt too late to get into the game, but are there any things I should know?

I mean, me sitting on my ass for a month hasnt helped my image with the ladies...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sorry, i'd love to help you out, but i don't understand, could you elaborate please?
 

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You know, I talk to the girls, I'm friendly with them, but I havent really obtained any contact information yet.

and that kind of makes me look like a pvssy.

So I was wondering what would be the best way to counteract that.
 

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Arrange a bowling trip. Need #'s for that
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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daceovspades

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Dude, Aim sux for talking to girls. Go for the number .
 

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If you are friendly with them why not try for the number close anyways? Worst off you end up in the friend zone, but you could still use some networking so its all good.
 

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If you realized theres a problem, the only logical step is to fix the problem.

How do you fix the problem? Get the #. Simple as that.

Go for it buddy.
 

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yeah...

I'll get some this week or next.

I'll update you guys on my progress.

Dont let me procrastinate:D
 

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I'm with these guys; don't worry about AIM. Go for the number. It seems a lot less awkward to ask a girl for her digits than for her AIM screen name.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Re: yeah...

Originally posted by Black Casanova
I'll get some this week or next.

I'll update you guys on my progress.

Dont let me procrastinate:D
Procrastination leads to masturbation.
 
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