"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I dont have much to add, im nowhere near a DJ yet but I will say that its pretty creepy you told her your friend saw her at a bar.....you probably she have kept it cool and kept that sh!te to you urself homie...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Gangster Of Love said:
This broad has already put him in the friends zone, and he's still fvcking around with setting these late morning/early afternoon get togethers or "dates".
yep, and I bet that the night his friend saw her she was out looking for ass. And she probably got it, and wanted to spend the next day with him instead of the OP. Sluts.
 

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Rescue Mission said:
Why in the world would you want to go hiking in the morning with a woman that you haven't had sex with and barely know?

I don't understand some of you "men", do you try to intentionally put yourselves in positions where you are GUARANTEED to NOT have sex with a woman?

Hiking? Morning? She has a BBQ at 2 and wants to get some hiking in b4hand? That is what a FRIEND is for.......and you are NOT her friend.

Next time, make sure that you are spending time with a woman at either her place or your place, with drinks, and music/movies - it's the fastest way to some good fvcking to go down........but MY GOD.......HIKING IN THE MORNING??? Don't be a pvssy nice guy, PLEASE!!!
whoever said i "barely know her" or that "i havent had sex with her?" ive done both. she brought up the hiking and i thought it was a good idea
 
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Mr. RomJuan,

We are men here, and 99.99% of the time, we mention whether we had sex with a woman or not, especially when asking someone for advice. You did not even hint at you ever having sex with this woman in this thread, so how was I supposed to know?

And then you come back at me with chick logic "why do you think I barely know her? Why do you think we didn't have sex?" - DUHHH, because you didn't mention it at all, and not you wanna place the blame on ME for not being a psychic? lol........

if you already has sex with her (and I am assuming it was only ONCE, because you of course did not mention how much sex you two have been having), then I stand by my original point - isolation, have sex again, leave the morning hikes for when you KNOW that she is worth more to you than only sex.
 
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Damnit Rescue... lately you are making a LOT of sense in all of your assessments. I'm gonna go drink another Jack. You suck! :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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