"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Let's put the height issue to a close!!

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LostAndConfused said:
I always thought each woman had sort of a bell curve going on for height. Too tall and you get rejected, too short and you get rejected too. Of course, if you approach and open correctly height doesn't often come into play unless you are one of the extremes. However a fairly tall guy gets a fairly easy opener as they often get attention from everyone in the room just because of height alone. But I have in the past been rejected just because of height alone.
True, however anyman who stands atleast 5 feet 9 inches tall should not have too many problems when it comes to height alone.

And thats another thing. Being really tall is not good either. Some women might be turned off by a 6'3"- 6'5" giant.
I went to school with a 5'0 chick and she did NOT want a guy taller than 5'8".
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mahon I don't get you

last time I heard of you, you made a post about short guys being hopeless, and tall guys lucky.:confused:
 

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Noob said:
im 5'3 and i dont let it get to me... my brother is 5'2 and hes a body builder, he gets more ***** then porn stars.. its not about height at all, i am one of the shortest persons on this forum and i know how to have a good time, and have fun with women.... plain and simple.. HEIGHT DOES NOT MATTER...

Wow, 5'3 and you still get some.

You must look like Brad and Beckham combined.
 

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mahon83050 said:
Not to mention it is biologically better TO NOT be tall.

Shorter people DON'T slouch, have poor posture, have to worry about hitting their heads on things and have QUICKER reaction times.

Ever notice GREAT highschool wrestlers and martial artists ARE USUALLY NOT TALL??
everything in this statement is false, why would a shorter person have quicker reaction times?..."great high school wrestlers" and "martial artist" are best short because they have a low center of gravity, not because they have quicker response times, just like a skateboarder.
short people, tall people all have bad posture, it makes no differnce, it has to do with how you were raised, as a kid if I ever had as bad of posture as half the people I see today my Father would have probably duck taped a 2 by 4 to my back until I stood up straight. I'm 6,7 and I have good posture, never had a problem with that.
as far as watching for hitting my head on things, I would prefer to look out for low doorways and be seen by everybody when I walk into a room instead of not being seen by anybody and noticing how well everybodys shoes are shined any day of the week.
get your facts straight.
 

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I am 6' 1" and thought I was too short( as it hasn't contributed one way or the other to success with women for me ).

I always have gone for women not much shorter than me. It doesn't make much difference once you sit down next to her and look into her eyes at nearly the same horizon line of sight.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wutangfinancial said:
6'1, huh?
I'm 5'8
It isn't a paranoid thing for me, it's reality
It ain't your height pal, 5'8" is not that short. You may have some women rejecting you for being too short, but a majority won't.

You are 5'8", not 5'4".
 
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