"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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let's play would you rather: group sex with unattractive girls or one gorgeous one?

devilkingx2

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let's say you have a theoretical choice

choice A leads to group sex(2-4 girls PLUS you) but the girls are unattractive(HB6 and down), assume that the more of them you get the worse their looks(IE, 2 HB6's or 3 HB5's or 4 HB3's)

choice B leads to like a HB 9 or 10, but only one

both are guaranteed sex but only one night things, no one has to know unless you tell them.

(just imagine choice A is crashing a 50th birthday party at a bar when you're like 21 and choice B is a really good day for you.)

which do you prefer?

I'd go for the group myself, group sex is always an accomplishment, ALWAYS.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tomthebomb

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I'd say the one 10/10.

Group sex isn't really some,thing I care about.
 
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The general discussion has really gone to sh!t. Long time members should spam field reports out of the wazoo.
 
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