"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Let's make a list of what makes a woman low quality

ReesesPeace

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I'll start it off. Feel free to contribute.

She has a history of cheating. Even worse if she has cheated multiple times during an LTR or on her husband.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Billtx49

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No respect for men
Lack of boundaries
Having heavy baggage never properly dealt with
 

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she's breathing
she has 10 fingers
she has 10 toes
 

The Duke

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She dates guys that hang out on pua forums!
 

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Haha...this list is comical. But I will chime in:

Independent
Doesn't need a man
Diva
Drama Queen
Babies by multiple men
Doesn't like sex
Doesn't communicate
Masculine tendacies - Agressive (in an angry way), overly assertive (like a try hard)
No conflict resolution skills
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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1. Family history - Always have to be wary if a woman has a difficult family history. This includes family divorces, parents being married multiple times, crazy aunts and uncles.
2. Relationship history- If a woman has a checkered history of abusive boyfriends, being cheated on, or cheating. Early divorce, children at a young age, has had an abortion.
3. Substance abuse/overuse Does she get drunk/high a lot. Is that what she wants to do for fun.
4. Self esteem issues - Every woman struggle with self esteem to a point, but women with low self esteem are trouble.
5. Mental Health issues - Self explanatory
6. Cannot get along with females/few female friends - She has more guy friends than female friends because she says can't stand women or guys are more real straightforward etc, or women are catty. What that really means is that women tend to hate me because I steal their men and I need lots of attention from men.
7. No hobbies/passions - If a woman has no hobbies or passions it's red flag because it means she probably relies on drama/TV/social media to stimulate her, or alternatively so looks to create drama with the guys that she knows.
8. Has a straight best friend who is madly in love with her - She doesn't care about his welfare but rather the loves the attention of being treated like a girlfriend without any having to take herself off the market.
9. Tattoos - Especially bad ones. She doesn't probably doesn't think about future ramifications of her actions
10. Claims she's an adrenaline junkie - Nothing wrong with enjoying action activities but there's no winding down that's an issue it usually mean she gets bored, has quite a short attention span.
11. Hates kids/animals - Chances are she hates responsibility and wants to just have fun and not think about anything that could take away from that fun.
 

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You guys are missing the most important one!

If she's a CAT LADY rrruuuunnnn!
 

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Attention wh0re
Stage 5 clinger
History of depression
Very few female friends (reeks of low self esteem, she can't be around other girls)
Addicted to Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat, etc. (I don't need to see a picture of your salad, thank you)
Has lots of orbiters or male friends (can't get enough male attention)
Ex is a deadbeat loser (she'll date ANYONE so she doesn't have to be alone)
History of abuse
Super secretive and protective of her cell phone (she's texting her orbiters to keep them...in orbit)
Takes selfies like it's going out of style. I find this a MAJOR RED FLAG
Self image issues (constantly changing hair color, nail color, makeup, etc.)
Needy/insecure (constantly calling/texting me like I have her paycheck)

Yes I dated a girl who had all of these traits. NC worked for me. It can work for you too.
 

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The_411 said:
1. Family history - Always have to be wary if a woman has a difficult family history. This includes family divorces, parents being married multiple times, crazy aunts and uncles.
2. Relationship history- If a woman has a checkered history of abusive boyfriends, being cheated on, or cheating. Early divorce, children at a young age, has had an abortion.
3. Substance abuse/overuse Does she get drunk/high a lot. Is that what she wants to do for fun.
4. Self esteem issues - Every woman struggle with self esteem to a point, but women with low self esteem are trouble.
5. Mental Health issues - Self explanatory
6. Cannot get along with females/few female friends - She has more guy friends than female friends because she says can't stand women or guys are more real straightforward etc, or women are catty. What that really means is that women tend to hate me because I steal their men and I need lots of attention from men.
7. No hobbies/passions - If a woman has no hobbies or passions it's red flag because it means she probably relies on drama/TV/social media to stimulate her, or alternatively so looks to create drama with the guys that she knows.
8. Has a straight best friend who is madly in love with her - She doesn't care about his welfare but rather the loves the attention of being treated like a girlfriend without any having to take herself off the market.
9. Tattoos - Especially bad ones. She doesn't probably doesn't think about future ramifications of her actions
10. Claims she's an adrenaline junkie - Nothing wrong with enjoying action activities but there's no winding down that's an issue it usually mean she gets bored, has quite a short attention span.
11. Hates kids/animals - Chances are she hates responsibility and wants to just have fun and not think about anything that could take away from that fun.
:yes:
 

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Outlaw_ said:
Haha...this list is comical. But I will chime in:

Independent
Doesn't need a man
Diva
Drama Queen
Babies by multiple men
Doesn't like sex
Doesn't communicate
Masculine tendacies - Agressive (in an angry way), overly assertive (like a try hard)
No conflict resolution skills
Competitive
Likes sports more than you!
Get's upset if you don't respond to her text immediate
complainers
Can't follow a mans lead
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Self absorbed and selfish.
Lack of empathy.
Does not communicate well (or at all).

Also, if you have to play detectiv, think twice about investing more time into the relationship.
 

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She does not make effort to look attractive.
She is poorly groomed.
She does not have access to money.
She is masculine in behaviour and attitude.
 

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- being a bigamist
 

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More than three sexual partners? Find me a woman who had less than ten! Really. Where are they?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jimjam said:
More than three sexual partners? Find me a woman who had less than ten! Really. Where are they?

lol this still isn't bulletproof. My last gf had only been with one other guy, but she was already messed up. Sometimes less can be a red flag.


I'm really enjoying this post though. Some very true statements here.
 

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Excellent points gentlemen.

- Has little or no interest in reading. Cares little for literature and the arts (an interest in fem-lit or other nonsense type books like Twilight doesn't count).

- Listens mostly to hip hop and mainstream trash.

- Follows stupid trends.
 

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You guys have all the good ones, mine will be a rehash

1.) Facebook / instagram wh0re.

2.) Insecurity issues, and I mean the non normal ones. There will be a black hole inside there that can never be filled until she takes the steps to fill it herself.

3.) JEALOUSY!!! A little is fine, but if you are sitting there watching a game of thrones episode and a naked woman walks out and your gf flips the hell out, jumps off the couch, and points a finger in your face yelling and accusing you that you want to fvck that tramp, then stand up and fly out of the premises immiediately without second thought!

4.) Hooked on reality T.V. - This follows the facebook thing, means that she wants to be a superstar and has issues.

5.) Was raised by overprotective parents (might be in too deep by the time you find this out, but still, there it is.)

6.) Has never been single for more then a week since she was 15 years old. Has major attachment issues because of insecurity, the black hole that can never be filled.
 

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Can not verbally express her feelings, i.e., sends a link to a song and says "this is how I feel about you". huge red flag..

Sexually abused by a father figure as a minor
 
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jimjam said:
More than three sexual partners? Find me a woman who had less than ten! Really. Where are they?
Exactly!! I hooked up with a chick recently and I was her 3rd partner. She's in her early 20's and was a virgin until 19. She lost it with her a boyfriend that lasted for four years. She had two rather quickly after that and guess what? By the time she settles down she'll probably have MANY more.

Less than 3 partners AIN'T happening these days.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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