"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lets Just Be Friends

JayCamx23

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okay im now a sophomore in high school. 2 years ago when i was mr nice guy this girl wanted me. it was quite obvious. always said hi to me, wrote on my papers and notebooks. gave me a personal nickname and stuff like that. Okay you all no how it went, she became less and less interested in me until at one point we hadnt talked for like 6 months until spring of freshman year.
okay a few days ago i got my seat moved in one of my classes and sat across from her at this small table. she really wasnt talking to me for like 10 minutes because i was talkin to my friend mostly and we were in the middle of class. so she accidently touched my foot and she looked at me and said sorry. i say "somebody loves playing with my feet." she started cracking up. so then she wrote some stuff on my papers and continued the feet touching throughout the class. after i said something she just held eye contact for like 5 or 6 seconds until she looked down. i was NOT going to look away first, something i would have done 2 years ago.
so a few days later she stopped her conversation when she passed me in the hallway and said to me "dont give me that look" in a playful way.

so i know its a long way, if not impossible, to get out of the LJBF category, but am i off to a good start here? i think so but it might not even matter at this point. anyway does anyone have any advice on getting out?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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wanga

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Well, you might be on your way out, though it's a little hard to tell.. it could be flirting, or friendly play... I'd take it as an IOI (Indicator of Interest) and pursue it... game her back, tease her a bit aswell, kino her.. then tell her that the two of you should hang out and that's pretty much it.
 

DJ4Real

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Getting out of friends zone is tough. and yes, you're starting off right.

Don't make the mistake and make her the center of your attention. Be rare, in other words and make her think about you.

Continue the C&F, you said a very good thing when she started touching your feet.

Keep it up!

Good Luck:cool:
 

wavejams007

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research this subject, it is covered pretty well. the above posts are somewhat helpful but the featured articles on this site are much more detailed.
 
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