"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lets Just Be Friends

JayCamx23

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okay im now a sophomore in high school. 2 years ago when i was mr nice guy this girl wanted me. it was quite obvious. always said hi to me, wrote on my papers and notebooks. gave me a personal nickname and stuff like that. Okay you all no how it went, she became less and less interested in me until at one point we hadnt talked for like 6 months until spring of freshman year.
okay a few days ago i got my seat moved in one of my classes and sat across from her at this small table. she really wasnt talking to me for like 10 minutes because i was talkin to my friend mostly and we were in the middle of class. so she accidently touched my foot and she looked at me and said sorry. i say "somebody loves playing with my feet." she started cracking up. so then she wrote some stuff on my papers and continued the feet touching throughout the class. after i said something she just held eye contact for like 5 or 6 seconds until she looked down. i was NOT going to look away first, something i would have done 2 years ago.
so a few days later she stopped her conversation when she passed me in the hallway and said to me "dont give me that look" in a playful way.

so i know its a long way, if not impossible, to get out of the LJBF category, but am i off to a good start here? i think so but it might not even matter at this point. anyway does anyone have any advice on getting out?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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wanga

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Well, you might be on your way out, though it's a little hard to tell.. it could be flirting, or friendly play... I'd take it as an IOI (Indicator of Interest) and pursue it... game her back, tease her a bit aswell, kino her.. then tell her that the two of you should hang out and that's pretty much it.
 

DJ4Real

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Getting out of friends zone is tough. and yes, you're starting off right.

Don't make the mistake and make her the center of your attention. Be rare, in other words and make her think about you.

Continue the C&F, you said a very good thing when she started touching your feet.

Keep it up!

Good Luck:cool:
 

wavejams007

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research this subject, it is covered pretty well. the above posts are somewhat helpful but the featured articles on this site are much more detailed.
 
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