Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
So what if you have contempt for them? Will that make them want to u to like them again? I just saw a woman that I kind of was getting closer to and she was like how have you been and I just gave her a blank stare and said ok and kept walking. She let out this big giggle and kept walking. I would of thought she would of kissed my azz in fear of me telling her boyfriend.hope that you will not have any contempt for them if you ever run into them again
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Wow, brilliant post. To add more intelligent material in the spirit of the above post I will note, if a girl slaps you, calls you a f*cking *******, and spits in your face, she's probably not interested in dating you.Originally posted by PlayaWannabe
Ok LJBF = I don't look at you sexually, or i don't think you are the right guy for me. But this is just what it's about. No friendship attached or is it just a way of saying goodbye and "if you pass by me on the street forget that you know me" kind of thing. Enlighten me d juans.