"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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let's-just-be-friending women?

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Maybe best way to get a girlfriend is to just develop a deep connection with women, take it easy (not rush things) and wait for things to happen naturally at their own pace.... Girls will fall in love when they get to know the real you, at a deep level. Maybe they key is to just "Let's-just-be-friends" the women you meet. After getting to know the real you, some of them will like you and fall in love and others just won't. Those who like you will let you know

Is talking and socializing with women with the intention of making her your girlfriend is the same as trying to get something from her? Do you think the best way to get a girlfriend is just to develop a deep, intimate connection and just see what happens (without trying to seduce her or getting something from her?


what do you think about this ?

here's a video that talks a bit about these kind of things
http://www.nowomandiet.com/?p=8 Enjoy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HELL NO! Doesn't work. You will end up being their gay best friend. I have learned from experience. Since I went to grad school I have about 2 dozen new women friends who in NO way see me as a love interest. They all love me and want to talk to me about the men in their life and get romance advice, but don't want to be romantic with me. Even though I would go for it with some. The "lets just be friends" thing WILL NOT WORK!!!

I'm kind of drunk right now, so maybe I'm not seeing the point. But I'm pretty sure I'm right and this **** won't work. Women are insane.
 
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works incredibly well if you can spot that key moment when you need to shift the frame. Looking back it's incredibly easy for me to spot those moments that I missed. But at the time, they were not always obvious (or I assumed that they'd happen again). For a naturally very high EQ person this is incredibly effective, but if you're naturally high EQ, unless you look like a total dog you're probably not going to have any problems with women in the first place.

/shrug
 
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lokariototal said:
Maybe best way to get a girlfriend is to just develop a deep connection with women, take it easy (not rush things) and wait for things to happen naturally at their own pace.... Girls will fall in love when they get to know the real you, at a deep level. Maybe they key is to just "Let's-just-be-friends" the women you meet. After getting to know the real you, some of them will like you and fall in love and others just won't. Those who like you will let you know

Is talking and socializing with women with the intention of making her your girlfriend is the same as trying to get something from her? Do you think the best way to get a girlfriend is just to develop a deep, intimate connection and just see what happens (without trying to seduce her or getting something from her?


what do you think about this ?

here's a video that talks a bit about these kind of things
http://www.nowomandiet.com/?p=8 Enjoy
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On one hand, it can advantageous to not try to get in her pants. Let her get to know you and she may well seduce you. BUT, this only works if she is already very physicallly attracted to you. If she isn't physically attracted to you, all the friendship and "connection" in the world won't help you get her.
 
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This is nonsense my friend.

Dont take advice from girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If that shyt worked, this site wouldn't exist.

i nominate this thread as AFC thread of the year.

After getting to know the real you, some of them will like you and fall in love and others just won't. Those who like you will let you know
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... And it wont matter, cuz they'll start banging the jerk who had the balls to go for it, then tell you how great of a friend you are, and that she wishes HE could be more like YOU.

Good luck with that.

Oh, and NO, they wont let you know if they like you. They'll be waiting to see if you're a real man and go for them, which you wont, because you are such a great friend and wouldn't dream of disrespecting them like that.
 
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This can work if you make yourself SCARCE, and she sees you with OTHER WOMEN. You are partially correct, but replace "friends" with "buddies". Treat her like a guy friend, let her know you **** other women, be kind but nice, don't give a fuvk about her. A relationship will only develop if she has attraction, no attraction, no pusvvy for you. But yes, being a "distant" friend does work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GetOveIT said:
Are you guys feeding a troll?
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Hopefully. If the OP was asking in earnest, we need to force people to read the DJ Bible before getting permission to post on these boards.
 
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