"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lets here some GOOD stuff guys no bad stuff SUCCESS and MASTERY

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Alright i was just reading some of mysterys comments on your eather a master or a beginner the 5 for 5 rule out of 5 women you approach you should be able to get 5 relationships out of it all 5 should be willing to have a relationship with you anything less is amatuer well, I have to say I guess I'm not a master yet haha but.... so far I've approached 3 girls this last week and all 3 are going to go out with me ive slept with the hottest one already and the other 2 are on my list but the really hot one keeps coming out with me for sex so I dont have all that much time for the other 2 and I just got a new job so I'm not really financially stable yet... but I still think I'm doing pretty good next week I will approach at least 3 more HB8+ and I am very confident i will get what we both want... so thats kinda a bit of my success story i just thought I'd share that all it takes is getting out there and trying.... so far I've only slept with 1/3 approached but 2/3 are ready and willing and the last one is going to meet me at a club/bar next week so we will have a chance to flirt .... I figure 3/3 within 2 weeks isnt bad and i still have all next week to setup the last 2 of 5 If i get 5/5 I will totally totally have changed My life I used to be the biggest AFC you ever met now I can get every woman I talk too.
LETS hear IT guys I want to get some posative **** going on this forum cause I dont see enuf of it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bud, I'm going to say this, and it might hurt.

You cannot have 100% success rate.

Yes, I just questioned a more knowledgable person's train of thought. You might get 5/5 here..and good for you, but who's to say that you might get 4/5, or 3..or just 1 next time? It's good to see progress, but there are just some things that are not possible.

Just wanted to point that out to you before it gets to your head, but nevertheless, that's what we strive for.
 

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yeah I'm ont talking a 100% close rate I'm just saying if you can approach 5 women in a row and get all 5 your doing pretty damn good so what if the next 5 blow you off?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hate it when people just post one huge block of text - paragraphs please...or at least break it up a little, it makes it easier to read.

all 5 should be willing to have a relationship with you anything less is amatuer
I don't agree with that at all. Of course It would be nice to have a 100% success rate but nobody could achieve that...are you saying that everyone is an amateur?
 

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I duno I just thought I would share what mystery said.... NOT what I said ... but whatever no ownder this forums has gone downhill I post a topic called lets here some good stuff guys success and mastery... and what do I get? critisized about something I read ... and posted from a master....
 

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Everyone's a critic. Even me.
At least I said that you had the good aim.

Meh...take everything with a grain of salt.
 
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