"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"lets hang out" then they dont wanna?

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worse of all is that is thru stupid myspace so I cant even judge a reaction.

I really have no idea where I went wrong.

Its whatever though, Im just wondering why people do this. :confused: People do this all the time. Someone will be talking or will say something, and then people just blatantly ignore them. They rather have silence than even acknowledge the person. When this happens, when I notice it, I'll always think "whats wrong with people?" and then I'll try to at least acknowledge whoever was talking so they don't feel like no one's listening. But it's so blatant, it'll be silent, obviously they heard the person they just dont say anything. This generation is about to be so ****ed up, worse than crack babies. It's about to be a bunch of mindless slaves. What a shame too, this generation can save the planet earth, but the future looks dim.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah, I've noticed people are getting dumber. Especially with this internet speak (idk u wtf ttyl bff). My question is were a majority of people under 20 not taught basic English skills in school, or are they just too lazy to use them?

As for your problem, ehh forget it. She's not even worth thinking about.
 

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Between gangster slang and internet's 1337-speak my generation is screwed royally. If I could beat the sh!t out of whoever came up with 'What you sayin'?' as a replacement for how's it going...they'd be dead. It's even worse when you see white people talking like that..it's one of the few things that pisses me off.
 

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theunflushables said:
Yeah, I've noticed people are getting dumber. Especially with this internet speak (idk u wtf ttyl bff). My question is were a majority of people under 20 not taught basic English skills in school, or are they just too lazy to use them?
little bit of A and a little bit of B

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Have you guys seen the movie "Idiocracy". I swear this is becoming less fiction and more fact every day.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah I notice that all the time where people are talking then one guy says something, and even if its really funny, people just ignore him/her. Communication, not only between guys and girls, is dying.
 

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LostAndConfused said:
Yeah I notice that all the time where people are talking then one guy says something, and even if its really funny, people just ignore him/her. Communication, not only between guys and girls, is dying.
I think it's communication between anyone, same sex or not.
 

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I hope you were being ironic dot, because if not, that is the best example of communication dying. :D
 

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theunflushables said:
I hope you were being ironic dot, because if not, that is the best example of communication dying. :D
Nah I wasn't. :whistle: I blame it on the internet :D
 

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I agree that lots of kids aren't being educated properly... It could be that schools are pushing for improvement too hard and fast and leaves kids with the feeling that they're "dumber" than they should be to everyone else.

Some teachers are almost retarded though... they don't know how to work with students, they only grade and teach in a style according to what they want, and are unwilling to change themselves. The point of school is to get into life and learn about everything, not just one subject per class in particular, however to carry on information and relate from subject to subject.

Communication definitely is dying!
Especially through lies, or if not a lie, just simply hiding the truth.
Lots of girls do this and I think they're just stupid b!tches... > _<
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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