"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lookyoung

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I am so utterly dissapointed with sosuave over the last few days. Iqqi who is a female poster posts a thread about a girly problem and we have 15 pages of AFC's giving her advice. WTF happened to this place? Everyone here talks about being a man but this is AFC behavior at its fullest.

Do you think if one of us went on a cosmopolitan type board and were fighting with all the woman on there we would be allowed to stay? First of all we would be seen as being creepy and a loser being on an all womans forum. At best they would call us a gay. Like it or not IQQI being here is creepy. What kind of woman fights with a bunch of guys all day and posts on this forum? WTF does a woman get out of this forum?

We all talk about how feminism is BS and how men have to unite to be men but a bunch of us are acting like little pu$$ies. I don't know about how everyone else feels but when I am on sosuave I don't want to hear about girly problems. Lets talk about becoming better DJ's and improving ourselves as men.


Whats next IQQi discussing her PMS moodswings? Its time for us men to be men and do something about this parasite. She should consider it a blessing that she is allowed to post on this forum. Instead of being thankful she fighting with everyone

Some of the most respected posters on sosuave. Guys like Rollo,Joekker,Karmasutra,LMS,Latinoman, Mr positive, VU, Fransico will say never listen to a womans advice. What woman say and what they do are two different things. It even says it in our freakin DJ Bible. Yet when she posts everyone is here to lend her a helping hand.


Its time for us and the mods in particular to get rid of this parasite. Its time for us to start acting like men and not like a bunch of AFC PU$$IES.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Señor Fingers

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The real problem here is not Iqqi or women.. it's the dudes who get all worked up over a woman in the locker room and give them special attention. A lot of them have little experience with chicks which is why this is not too surprising.

Though she is my friend, I won't defend everything Iqqi says.. sometimes she is a drama queen and even I've given her heat for it. But that doesnt mean she has never contributed anything valuable to this forum.
 

WesCottII

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Well yeah, smashing sentiments n all, but I can see a glaring flaw in your rant.

Why? Why waste the energy/time, getting worked up over a *GASP* woman on the boards, when you could be out doing something constructive?

I've never had a problem with her personally, and her presence does not have an effect on my life one way or the other. You've got your ignore feature.
 

DJVladdy

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Hey yo fingers, are you the dude who's 21 and wrote a book about sex, I head some podcast about that... I know ur "somebody" but I forgot who lol
 

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Well I see your point lookyoung, but if you read most of the replies to iqqi's thread I think there was some pretty good DJ principles being thrown in her face.Sure, a lot of time was wasted on giving her negative attention, but if you read through a lot of the other posts on here they're so pointless and not deserving of much response either. Sometimes posters just want to have "fun" with an AW :up: .
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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