"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Lets get together sometime this week and go for a walk.

pvf94

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2006
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
I was on the bus home from school the other day, im a senior in highschool. This girl that used to be in one of my classes rides it too. She used to not be really nice with me, sort of cold, but flirty at the same time. Anyhow..

Ever since that class ended (about 3 months ago) every time she sees me (probably about 3 times a week) she feels the need to have a hug.

Well on the bus ride home the other day, everyone was exchanging phones looking at each others out of boredom I guess, she got mine and little to my knowledge she put her number in it. I did not know this till the next event...
she was throwing paper at me on thursday during our ride home, and I jokingly said "Is one of these going to have a sexual fantasy written on it?"

A few papers later she said dont throw that one away it has somethin written on it. It said "hi pvf, ***-****" It was her number. I went to add it to my phone later on in the night and noticed it was already in there.

She must really wanna talk eh?

I do not drive and id like to get out with her one on one. Do you think this would fly? "Lets get together sometime this week and go for a walk."
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

IceCream

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 9, 2006
Messages
109
Reaction score
0
Location
California USA
If your gonna try and set something up with her, name a specific time and date. Other then that, i think you got this.
 

pvf94

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2006
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
I'm gonna be calling her in like 2 hours, I need a good idea. I'm not loaded and don't got a car, the only way I could get to her is if we meet up somewhere.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

Top