"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let's get rid of this....

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The picture in the top left hand corner of the home page at Sosuave.

That guy looks like such an AFC - and the girl is a HB6 at best.

I say we need to change that picture to something decent.

Thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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...And this is important because...?
 

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Thanks for the Suggestion and/or Feedback!

Your comment, question and/or opinion is important to us!

Please hold for the next available person who gives a sh*t. Thank you!
 

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Im pretty sure if u had a nude women on top it would attract more guys!! ha
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Cutiepiie
Im pretty sure if u had a nude women on top it would attract more guys!! ha
Shut the hell up.
 

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It states:

"Secrets of attracting, dating blah blah"

That guy looks like a buffoon.

That's my opinion and you can stick it where the sun doesn't shine if you don't like it.



:cool:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Cutiepiie
UMM UMMM UMMMMMMM
I only tell you to shut the hell up when you say something totally f*cking stupid.

It's not my fault that's every gotdamned time you open your mouth.
 

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I am sure most of us are not male models, etc.

So why cater to the Cosmo crowd and only have pictures of the "beautiful people"?

A beautiful woman might be are target, but do we really care what are fellow Don Juan's look like?
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
It's not my fault that's every gotdamned time you open your mouth.

I'm not kissing your ass or anything, Gio, but you are one cool mother****er.:cool:


Now, this has gotta be one of the most retarded threads ever started. Since when do looks make a DJ?--its all about attitude, baby!
 
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