"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jakeg123

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Alright i just started reading and putting the bible into action the past week or two. I've got a few options to work with! Lemme get some advice and input! Excuse grammar I'm typing on my phone haha.

Girl one- Gorgeous (8-9) and totally innocent. In the friend zone for sure but we used to talk a lot. Now I barely see her. She is very flirty and seems to lead on a bunch of guys but never choose. Currently likes a guy from another school. Has a weird thing where she always hangs out in groups not just one on one.

Girl 2- so sexy (8-9) exotic girl. Friendzone again and i'm not sure about her guy situation. Smart girl, body and brains and not a hoe. Loves cars too. Very nice. Don't talk to her outside of class often at all. Only time I hungout with her was for my birthday.

Girl 3- adorable also (6-8). Not sure where I stand with her having not know her for a while. Loves having a good time and we have fun together. Actually thinking about flat out asking her out on a date. We text a few times a week but I don't really care about texting anymore. For my birthday her and her friend (a Vietnamese model) got me sex dice. This girl said we should use them sometime. Still can't tell if she was kidding haha.

Would love any input you guys have! Teach me the ways all knowing ones! :)

-Jake

 
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jakeg123 said:
Alright i just started reading and putting the bible into action the past week or two. I've got a few options to work with! Lemme get some advice and input! Excuse grammar I'm typing on my phone haha.

Girl one- Gorgeous (8-9) and totally innocent. In the friend zone for sure but we used to talk a lot. Now I barely see her. She is very flirty and seems to lead on a bunch of guys but never choose. Currently likes a guy from another school. Has a weird thing where she always hangs out in groups not just one on one.

Girl 2- so sexy (8-9) exotic girl. Friendzone again and i'm not sure about her guy situation. Smart girl, body and brains and not a hoe. Loves cars too. Very nice. Don't talk to her outside of class often at all. Only time I hungout with her was for my birthday.

Girl 3- adorable also (6-8). Not sure where I stand with her having not know her for a while. Loves having a good time and we have fun together. Actually thinking about flat out asking her out on a date. We text a few times a week but I don't really care about texting anymore. For my birthday her and her friend (a Vietnamese model) got me sex dice. This girl said we should use them sometime. Still can't tell if she was kidding haha.

Would love any input you guys have! Teach me the ways all knowing ones! :)

-Jake

 
Focus on the third girl, use the first two to network more and meet more girls which will in turn raise the number of potential hooks up substantially...side effect is said "friend zoning girls" might get interested in you. You do not want to waste time with girls who just give off the lets be friends vibe. Who knows tho maybe you're not projecting enough of your sexuality, which I see is a big problem for most young guys.
 

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Jakeg123 said:
Alright i just started reading and putting the bible into action the past week or two. I've got a few options to work with! Lemme get some advice and input! Excuse grammar I'm typing on my phone haha.

Girl one- Gorgeous (8-9) and totally innocent. In the friend zone for sure but we used to talk a lot. Now I barely see her. She is very flirty and seems to lead on a bunch of guys but never choose. Currently likes a guy from another school. Has a weird thing where she always hangs out in groups not just one on one.

Girl 2- so sexy (8-9) exotic girl. Friendzone again and i'm not sure about her guy situation. Smart girl, body and brains and not a hoe. Loves cars too. Very nice. Don't talk to her outside of class often at all. Only time I hungout with her was for my birthday.

Girl 3- adorable also (6-8). Not sure where I stand with her having not know her for a while. Loves having a good time and we have fun together. Actually thinking about flat out asking her out on a date. We text a few times a week but I don't really care about texting anymore. For my birthday her and her friend (a Vietnamese model) got me sex dice. This girl said we should use them sometime. Still can't tell if she was kidding haha.

Would love any input you guys have! Teach me the ways all knowing ones! :)

-Jake

 
Why would you want to take it as a joke from girl 3? If I was you I would take that as a hugeee IOI and would throw everything i've got at that chick with the intent of bangin her.

As for girls one and two, it seems to me like you dont really talk to them that much, and since your already in the friend zone, your probably just better off forgettin about em and starting on a new chick who your on a clean slate with. That will be much easier than trying to dig yourself out of the friend zone hole with those chicks. If you still wanna go for it tho, the fastest way out of the friendzone is being sexual with the girl and getting a lot of kino in.
 

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Sounds good! Thanks guys.

As for girl 3 It seemed like something two girls would pick up at the mall thinking the dice were just hilarious.
 

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http://xkcd.com/708/ :)

In all seriousness though. Listen to Eaglez. She wouldn't have given you such a provocative gift if she didn't like you or if she thought you were "just a friend" or whatever. Its best not to even think about this kind of stuff and just assume everything she does is an IOI. I mean you can never be 100% sure about anything, so don't waste time trying to decipher whatever signals you are getting.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright I'll focus on her. Lately I started talking to a new girl in my math class. Texting, kino in class and a little flirting. Went to in n out burger last night just to hangout with her( and get animal style fries haha). So I get there and she was waiting for me. Then she tells me an annoying kid from our class is coming too. This kid and his friend( who was insane) ruined it. I wasn't positive If she liked me or was flirty, but after the French kid came and starting touching her, which she didn't think was that funny, I feel that it messed things up. Should I just stick with sex dice girl?
 

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How do I handle a girl with a BF, but I game her kino etc and she gives me mucho IOIs, she is horny and turned on by me yet she has a boy friend
 
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Still really interested in girl 1. I know she is a tease and I want to stop the teasing and actually do something. She is flirty in general but I want to stop it just being flirty. Her friends say she can never make up her mind about guys. I feel like I should next her but can't help but want to be with her when I see her.

Girl I met for a burger- Found out she is a tease as well.

Best way to deal with these girls? Both adorable and would love to have more than a friend. They both claim they don't realize they are flirting.
 

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888 said:
http://xkcd.com/708/ :)

In all seriousness though. Listen to Eaglez. She wouldn't have given you such a provocative gift if she didn't like you or if she thought you were "just a friend" or whatever. Its best not to even think about this kind of stuff and just assume everything she does is an IOI. I mean you can never be 100% sure about anything, so don't waste time trying to decipher whatever signals you are getting.
LMAO...funny cartoon strip
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bro the sex dice thing is a huge sign.....girls are feckin' HORNY ass creatures. All of them think about sex.....but the ones that talk about sex, are the ones whose pu55ys you need TO POUND & SHRED RIP TEAR etc etc.

Also dude can you elaborate more on the burger girl? The one you said's a tease. Some tease girls can be FVCKED if you do the right moves....like not responding to their mucho flirting.

Sometimes being dead...or w/e lol you get me. Not responding to the huge flirts helps.

But yea dude, how exactly do you know Burger Girl is a tease??
 

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Burger girl? Have math with her and started talking to her recently. Flirty body language and a lot of eye contact. Talk a lot more lately. Hang out with her nearly every weekend, her friends call her an "unintentional flirt" but Im not sure it's unintentional. Writes stuff to me on facebook all the time, calls me every so often. Her and girl number one are flirts, which sucks because I want both of them.
 
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