Alright I know there have been literally 2,496 threads about this already.
But it seems the only responses that are ever given to this age-old question is either silly cliche stuff like:
coffee shop
bookstores
EVERYWHERE.
Guess what - these answers are LAME and half the time are false.
Hot women aviod bookstores like the plague. I've been in bookstores at least a couple hundred times over the past few years, and I can count on one hand the number of hot women I've seen in a bookstore. And I've lived in 2 different cities during that time, and pretty much visited every major bookstore in both those towns.
Everyone knows hot girls are allergic to reading.
Coffee shops are another silly cliche answer. I've been in tons of coffee shops, and never once have i seen a good looking girl sitting alone.
Most people come in, get their coffee, and leave. They do not lounge around.
And then the other answer is "well you can meet women everywhere, they're all over the place."
Guess what - this is only true if
A. You are a DJ. That means you're there. You don't need this site. You're probably not reading this thread. You are charming, you're funny, you know what to say.
B. You are very good looking.
The reason you need one of those 2 things is, most women are not actively looking to meet anyone when they are going about their daily activities.
If you're not a DJ, cold approaching girls in tough venues is not going to help you out. Its a low success-rate situation, and can even screw up your confidence if you get shot down too many times without seeing any kind of positive results.
I used to have much higher confidence before I started approaching women. Unfortunately, I was approaching girls in clubs and bars, in L.A., and was getting shot down left and right. Or I'd get numbers, but get the run-around when I'd call a girl for a date. These types of experience do not help you out. In retrospect they've given me knowledge of what not to do, and allow me to recognize when a girl is being flaky, but in the long run I would have been better off NOT GOING TO CLUBS/BARS AND APPROACHING WOMEN THERE at all.
The other BIG reason the above ideas suck is because it TAKES WAY TOO MUCH TIME. To run around trolling the mall, the streets, bookstores, coffee shops, it can take hours at a time and often at most you'll see 1 or 2 girls that entire time that you'd like to approach. You're wasting many hours at a time, with little to no results to show for your effort.
Ok, so enough with the *****ing and whining. How can we find places that are CONDUCIVE to meeting women. Well, it needs to fit certain criteria:
1. Women go there to actively look for men.
2. It's a relaxed setting, and people will have their guards down.
3. There are a good number (ratio) of women there compared to men.
4. The nature of the event lends itself to meeting people.
Venues that have those qualities will result in a much higher success rate, which in turn will lead to your confidence increasing rapidly, WHICH WILL ALLOW YOU TO PICK UP GIRLS in "tougher" situations (i.e. at a club, in a group, etc.).
At worst, focus on venues that have 3 of those 4 qualities.
So what are these venues?
I've heard that any type of place where women expect to find rich guys, is where you will find a lot of good looking women. I'll give credit where its due, I got this idea from Tom Leykis (radio personality out here in l.a.)
* Wine tasting events (fits 1, 2, 3, and 4 above)
Google search "wine tasting" + your city to find local events
Great because everyone's drinking, but unlike a bar no one has their guard up.
* Golf tournaments (fits 1, 2 and 3 above)
I don't know how to find these
* Golf classes (fits 1, 2, 3 and 4 above)
Check your local community college, they run these fairly often.
* Acting classes (2, 3, 4)
Tend to be expensive, but check community colleges, and I'm sure other places offer these as well. I haven't personally looked into this. But the girls that do go will be hot. I mean come on, how many ugly actresses are there in hollywood. Other than Camryn Manheim.
* Alcoholics Anonymous meetings (1, 2, 3, 4)
Don't knock this on some moral grounds. If you think picking up girls at AA is beneath you, whatevas. I've heard this is one of the best places to meet hot women, especially in big cities.
Ya, they'll have emotional problems, and a good chance they'll be nuts. Don't fall in love with any women from here.
Doesn't mean you can't have fun, get some experience, build some sexual confidence from banging lots of good looking women.
Look at something like yoga classes. They fit 2 and 3 above. Not 1 and 4 though, because women are not looking to be picked up in yoga, and the nature of the class itself isn't one in which people are meeting or talking to eachother. For something like yoga classes, you'd have to go consistently, and that's work (unless you go there for just the enjoyment of doing the exercises).
Hot women DO NOT gravitate towards any sort of self-improvement classes. They just don't. A handful do, but the majority of hot women are content to be just that (hot). Self-improvement classes tend to attract a much older crowd (know this from experience).
Ok, so the point of this thread is, PLEASE ADD SOME MORE IDEAS. I've wrote down 4. It would be nice to have a whole lot more. I know one member (he's a mod but I forgot which one) likes doing biking events. Ideas like that. Ideally we should be doing things we ENJOY while also providing a venue for meeting women.
But it seems the only responses that are ever given to this age-old question is either silly cliche stuff like:
coffee shop
bookstores
EVERYWHERE.
Guess what - these answers are LAME and half the time are false.
Hot women aviod bookstores like the plague. I've been in bookstores at least a couple hundred times over the past few years, and I can count on one hand the number of hot women I've seen in a bookstore. And I've lived in 2 different cities during that time, and pretty much visited every major bookstore in both those towns.
Everyone knows hot girls are allergic to reading.
Coffee shops are another silly cliche answer. I've been in tons of coffee shops, and never once have i seen a good looking girl sitting alone.
Most people come in, get their coffee, and leave. They do not lounge around.
And then the other answer is "well you can meet women everywhere, they're all over the place."
Guess what - this is only true if
A. You are a DJ. That means you're there. You don't need this site. You're probably not reading this thread. You are charming, you're funny, you know what to say.
B. You are very good looking.
The reason you need one of those 2 things is, most women are not actively looking to meet anyone when they are going about their daily activities.
If you're not a DJ, cold approaching girls in tough venues is not going to help you out. Its a low success-rate situation, and can even screw up your confidence if you get shot down too many times without seeing any kind of positive results.
I used to have much higher confidence before I started approaching women. Unfortunately, I was approaching girls in clubs and bars, in L.A., and was getting shot down left and right. Or I'd get numbers, but get the run-around when I'd call a girl for a date. These types of experience do not help you out. In retrospect they've given me knowledge of what not to do, and allow me to recognize when a girl is being flaky, but in the long run I would have been better off NOT GOING TO CLUBS/BARS AND APPROACHING WOMEN THERE at all.
The other BIG reason the above ideas suck is because it TAKES WAY TOO MUCH TIME. To run around trolling the mall, the streets, bookstores, coffee shops, it can take hours at a time and often at most you'll see 1 or 2 girls that entire time that you'd like to approach. You're wasting many hours at a time, with little to no results to show for your effort.
Ok, so enough with the *****ing and whining. How can we find places that are CONDUCIVE to meeting women. Well, it needs to fit certain criteria:
1. Women go there to actively look for men.
2. It's a relaxed setting, and people will have their guards down.
3. There are a good number (ratio) of women there compared to men.
4. The nature of the event lends itself to meeting people.
Venues that have those qualities will result in a much higher success rate, which in turn will lead to your confidence increasing rapidly, WHICH WILL ALLOW YOU TO PICK UP GIRLS in "tougher" situations (i.e. at a club, in a group, etc.).
At worst, focus on venues that have 3 of those 4 qualities.
So what are these venues?
I've heard that any type of place where women expect to find rich guys, is where you will find a lot of good looking women. I'll give credit where its due, I got this idea from Tom Leykis (radio personality out here in l.a.)
* Wine tasting events (fits 1, 2, 3, and 4 above)
Google search "wine tasting" + your city to find local events
Great because everyone's drinking, but unlike a bar no one has their guard up.
* Golf tournaments (fits 1, 2 and 3 above)
I don't know how to find these
* Golf classes (fits 1, 2, 3 and 4 above)
Check your local community college, they run these fairly often.
* Acting classes (2, 3, 4)
Tend to be expensive, but check community colleges, and I'm sure other places offer these as well. I haven't personally looked into this. But the girls that do go will be hot. I mean come on, how many ugly actresses are there in hollywood. Other than Camryn Manheim.
* Alcoholics Anonymous meetings (1, 2, 3, 4)
Don't knock this on some moral grounds. If you think picking up girls at AA is beneath you, whatevas. I've heard this is one of the best places to meet hot women, especially in big cities.
Ya, they'll have emotional problems, and a good chance they'll be nuts. Don't fall in love with any women from here.
Doesn't mean you can't have fun, get some experience, build some sexual confidence from banging lots of good looking women.
Look at something like yoga classes. They fit 2 and 3 above. Not 1 and 4 though, because women are not looking to be picked up in yoga, and the nature of the class itself isn't one in which people are meeting or talking to eachother. For something like yoga classes, you'd have to go consistently, and that's work (unless you go there for just the enjoyment of doing the exercises).
Hot women DO NOT gravitate towards any sort of self-improvement classes. They just don't. A handful do, but the majority of hot women are content to be just that (hot). Self-improvement classes tend to attract a much older crowd (know this from experience).
Ok, so the point of this thread is, PLEASE ADD SOME MORE IDEAS. I've wrote down 4. It would be nice to have a whole lot more. I know one member (he's a mod but I forgot which one) likes doing biking events. Ideas like that. Ideally we should be doing things we ENJOY while also providing a venue for meeting women.
