intha_burbz
Don Juan
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PROS of approaching hot girls in public ( sets or individuals)
1. you gain life experience ( instead of sitting at home and jerking it)
2. you may learn - you will fail in the beginning. im IN the beginning and i "fail" by saying something stupid or i don't escalate smoothly or whatever. but after i can always take something out of the approach. either way with each new set i gain something somehow.
3. you can open, and you can laugh -laughing feels good ...also, they may laugh, you brightened up their day ( more happiness in the world) even if the set doesn't hook or you don't get their phone number, you brought some laughter in the world. you probably at least flattered the girl as well.
4. you open, and it's epic. your sets hook. you insta date them. you make out with them. you guys go on some crazy adventure idk. cool stories usually involve the opposite sex.
5. you may open and you get blown the **** out. they reject you hard. YOU MOVE ON. you grow some thick skin and suddenly the initial stinging feeling of getting rejected turns out to be a funny story. ( or you realize some girls are just in a bad mood and they don't wanna chat) and the next time you get rejected isn't so bad. you learn that it's part of "The Game". or sometimes really *****y sets can be really funny just don't take it so seriously. one time i said after a real crash and burn to my buddy "lol those girls were *****y" and we both laughed and then everything was fine.
cons:
there are none in my opinion. all the pain we fear is psychological pain. and we can choose to perceive it as a "learning experience" or something which all PUA's are required to do or just part of a journey. nothing of great pain will actually surface unless we let it.
conclusion:
we should all go out in public with a buddy or by ourselves and pick up chicks. It's the logical decision.
1. you gain life experience ( instead of sitting at home and jerking it)
2. you may learn - you will fail in the beginning. im IN the beginning and i "fail" by saying something stupid or i don't escalate smoothly or whatever. but after i can always take something out of the approach. either way with each new set i gain something somehow.
3. you can open, and you can laugh -laughing feels good ...also, they may laugh, you brightened up their day ( more happiness in the world) even if the set doesn't hook or you don't get their phone number, you brought some laughter in the world. you probably at least flattered the girl as well.
4. you open, and it's epic. your sets hook. you insta date them. you make out with them. you guys go on some crazy adventure idk. cool stories usually involve the opposite sex.
5. you may open and you get blown the **** out. they reject you hard. YOU MOVE ON. you grow some thick skin and suddenly the initial stinging feeling of getting rejected turns out to be a funny story. ( or you realize some girls are just in a bad mood and they don't wanna chat) and the next time you get rejected isn't so bad. you learn that it's part of "The Game". or sometimes really *****y sets can be really funny just don't take it so seriously. one time i said after a real crash and burn to my buddy "lol those girls were *****y" and we both laughed and then everything was fine.
cons:
there are none in my opinion. all the pain we fear is psychological pain. and we can choose to perceive it as a "learning experience" or something which all PUA's are required to do or just part of a journey. nothing of great pain will actually surface unless we let it.
conclusion:
we should all go out in public with a buddy or by ourselves and pick up chicks. It's the logical decision.
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