"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let us be strong!

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When men think of women, they think of inner and outer beauty. The women most desired by men are the most beautiful women. When women think of men, they think of inner and outer strength. The men most desired by women are the strongest men. Very few women are born beautiful, but men have a priceless gift that is unique to our sex. Each and every last one of us is born with the ability to be strong. The weak have become champion athletes. The timid have become world leaders. The slow have become scientific geniuses. Let us now use this gift. Let us be strong.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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short and sweet; i like it
 

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You have to already be pretty damn strong to have the desire and discipline to do what it takes to become stronger.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Virtú
You have to already be pretty damn strong to have the desire and discipline to do what it takes to become stronger.
Please do us all a favor and stop posting here. Each and every one of your posts is pessimistic, and that's something we have absolutely no use for here.
 
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