"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Let The Pain Make You Stronger!

soulforge

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I know there are many guys on here who have been mercilessly dumped by a girl they loved.. Or they where forced to dump a girl they really loved..

Don't let it destroy you.. Take that pain you are feeling, and do something good with it..

Improve yourself.. you are LUCKY... yes lucky to have learnt this important lesson.. this lesson will prompt you to become a much better man!

Hit the gym, and physically transform into a beast.. I promise you, bodybuilding will turn your world around.. This is one of the most important things you can do for your life.

Improve your social status, don't be afraid to make new friends.. Every morning you wake up, think of ways to make your life better..

Don't give up.. She broke your heart? Fuk her.. You will do so much better than her, but that will only happen if you improve yourself..

You have a community of brothers here on SS, who will guide you and support you.

YOUR NOT ALONE GUYS.. Stay positive and look after yourselves ☺☺
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wifehunter

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pain is factor that shapes our decisions...decisions make us who we are.

This is exactly why I still have a full bottle of Zoloft...never took one.
 
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