"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Let The Pain Make You Stronger!

soulforge

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I know there are many guys on here who have been mercilessly dumped by a girl they loved.. Or they where forced to dump a girl they really loved..

Don't let it destroy you.. Take that pain you are feeling, and do something good with it..

Improve yourself.. you are LUCKY... yes lucky to have learnt this important lesson.. this lesson will prompt you to become a much better man!

Hit the gym, and physically transform into a beast.. I promise you, bodybuilding will turn your world around.. This is one of the most important things you can do for your life.

Improve your social status, don't be afraid to make new friends.. Every morning you wake up, think of ways to make your life better..

Don't give up.. She broke your heart? Fuk her.. You will do so much better than her, but that will only happen if you improve yourself..

You have a community of brothers here on SS, who will guide you and support you.

YOUR NOT ALONE GUYS.. Stay positive and look after yourselves ☺☺
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wifehunter

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pain is factor that shapes our decisions...decisions make us who we are.

This is exactly why I still have a full bottle of Zoloft...never took one.
 
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