Let the Marital Issues Begin

[Lookatu]

And what do housewives do? They don't work. They stay home, get fat, stop having sex with their wage slave husband, then cheat and blame everything on him. Afterward, file for divorce, and take a paycheck that isnt theirs through alimony and child support. That sounds like a pretty sweet deal to me.

Unfortunately a lot of them do that these days if they aren't kept inline. I know quite a few including myself where that's not the case though. Laundry, making meals, grocery shopping, taking care of the kids, washing dishes, taking out the garbage is a minimum of my wife. I got her to shovel the snow last couple winters too.

I know a lot of guys on here are either young and unmarried, or have come here due to bad divorce rape situations. I hang out with the married crowd a lot so I get to see both sides of the pond. There are some good wives out there but these days it's becoming fewer and fewer unfortunately.

 

[ThisIsSparta]

Who is to blame here?

Cant blame a man for being bluepilled. Most of us were until a certain point. Its what society does to kids these days.

The real question is, what is he going to do about it?

He's definitely been the man of the house but it seems now she wants that role and he's not bowing down to her ****.

If he does, the marriage will go to the sewage. If he gives in, she will loose all respect. She will think she is above him and that she deserves someone "better" and she will start hoeing around.

I have been in the light-version of this shiat and fought her tooth and nail until she decided to move out, taking our kid with her and begged me to take her back 3 weeks later.

Your friend needs to show her that he isnt afraid to walk away. She needs to learn that he can replace her easy, that he has options.

 

[Gstring]

@jaymbrs
You have to drop your friend. You can not be having friends like that, they are unhealthy.

 

[Lookatu]

Not necessarily dude. Fvcking them as practice and dating them for a relationship are two different things. Now, if the kids are out of the house and on their own, different story. However, best to be avoided; if possible.

I agree somewhat but I'm sure we can both agree that marrying someone with pre-existing kids is a definite no-no, unless she won the lotto and there was no pre-nup. LOL

I have a cousin that's been currently dating a single mother for a year now. Although I don't think it's the best idea, the reality is in some areas, it's either date a hot single mom or be single due to 95% of others being a land whale. Plus I think this single mom he's dating is really cool and likes camping, guns, cars, offroading, etc. that is conducive with his hobbies and lifestyle. I just hope he doesn't marry her...

 

[Xenom0rph]

His first mistake is marrying a woman with kids...

I will never raise another man's child nor will I even interact with single mothers other than work-related conversations....

 

[RickTheToad]

I agree somewhat but I'm sure we can both agree that marrying someone with pre-existing kids is a definite no-no, unless she won the lotto and there was no pre-nup. LOL

I have a cousin that's been currently dating a single mother for a year now. Although I don't think it's the best idea, the reality is in some areas, it's either date a hot single mom or be single due to 95% of others being a land whale. Plus I think this single mom he's dating is really cool and likes camping, guns, cars, offroading, etc. that is conducive with his hobbies and lifestyle. I just hope he doesn't marry her...

Want to see magic? Seriously, see how many females change once they have a marriage license and ceremony (or just a witness).

 

[jaymbrs]

She in her mid 30s?

She is 31 I believe. But been a mother since 15 or something like that. Which may explain some of her late ambitions.

 

[logicallefty]

She is 31 I believe. But been a mother since 15 or something like that. Which may explain some of her late ambitions.

Thanks for responding I am always interested in a woman’s age in scenarios like yours. I keep mental statistics on it. For my own entertainment. I have posted this probably 10 times more on the site. Women get really coo coo in the mid-30s. Typically it’s between 33 and 39. This is where they cheat and /or leave men they have been with for a long time. Usually both. They get all high and mighty and think that they deserve better and want to go ride the CC again and prove to themselves that they still can. They also peek out in the “I’m miss independent” phase. Going to show the world they “don’t need no man”. They collect their child support and off they go.