"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Heyjose25points

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Hi, my name is Jose. I registered with this site about two and a half years ago, and didn't have any success because i wasn't myself. I attend a party school right now, and alot of the stuff i see like approaching doesn't usually happen on campus but in just clubs and parties.

Yea, i've heard time and time again that college girls are easy...but it doesn't seem so to me. Earlier in the year, first semester, i sat down where a girl is eating(she gave me a look as if wondering who i was, so i luckily knew her before). I thank this site for helping become a funny guy and being myself, half the time people are laughing at the stuff I do, like saying, "Chillin, chillin, and ummm....chillin somemore" and that other stuff. But in terms of actually gaming with females, I can't beyond anything besides kinoing them by just touching them in the shoulder and arm and stuff. I left the site so I could work in the field, but it didn't help as I was too scared. I pledged for two frats, almost made it into both but still could not get laid at all.

So then I see that this site is bookmarked, and keep hesitating to go back to it, just cause some guys I knew who were good didn't use it but whenever I asked them for advice, It usually wouldn't help at all, as the stuff they told me i've heard it here before. I'm not shy or anything, i meet people almost every day, plus I smile quite a bit. I'm just wondering though, Should I revisit this site once again and try it the RIGHT WAY. I just feel approaching isn't normal and can kind of creep a female out, even if u feel it isn't. I think I fainted one time afew minutes later after when i saw a girl walk by, i winked at her and she ignored me, felt bad :nervous: . I just feel like this site can truly help, but I'm wondering if I should visit it again. But at the same time, keep my upbeat personality(I smile and joke quite a bit), as its easier to bust a girl's balls than when i'm tryin to think, "What would the SSers suggest?" So can anyone tell me if returning to this site will help? Any criticism/flaming is fine by me, as I just want an answer.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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You worry too much. Let stuff role,"hang loose".
 
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