"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Let me know when you wanna get together"

mrpickles666

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Those words are in my head on other dates I go on. I left it off this way with the girl I was most recently dating. On a scale of 1-10, how likely is it that I will never hear from her again for those gayest words ever spoken? I cannot fvcking deal with "let me know when you wanna get together." I would be FINE if I just didn't say that.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mrpickles666

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?!?!?! I need a time machine! She thinks I'm a weak b1tch because of that. I'm actually not one though. I JUST HATE FVCKING THINGS UP THIS WAY. It was the final straw! All I had to do was say nothing! Now I'm working, going about my day with an inner cringe that hurts.
 

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Get a grip man. There's nothing wrong or weak with saying 'let me know'.

There is something wrong and weak with this obsession you have about this. Just let it go.
 

EvilSpirit22

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This is like the 19th thread created by this guy and this is the exact same question.
 

LMFAO

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And he has several usernames. Really a ban should be in order.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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EvilSpirit22

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LMFAO said:
And he has several usernames. Really a ban should be in order.

Yup ban him for being a tool. :D
 

EveryPostHere

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You let them know when YOU wanna get together, not the other way around. Don't mention future dates when on current ones, CALL or VERY BRIEF text conversation to arrange future dates.

Rock on.
 

Starwolf

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OP,

Did you take my advice? In another thread you posted i told you to judt go afc, call her and tell het you miss her etc etc?

Or did you continue to play it hard like a badass?

Once again. Stop using hard game tactics if you dont have the balllss
 

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OP, a lot of guys went out of their way to help you on your other thread, but you haven't even responded and have instead created this new one.

Choose ONE user name here and stick to it. PM me with your choice.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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