Let Me Ask You A Question, Do You Mind? I Thought Not

[Mr. Cardio]

okay, so I got this girl and I met her online right, like a year ago. I am about to move out to the state shes in in January because my career move is there. So, we have a relationship where I am basically like with any other girl, like the dominant one in the thing....but I have made it clear, you know, that we are only friends or what not, but, since she is attracted to me, I would fvck her when I get out there.

Now, the other day, we are talkin on the phone, and she was over a guys house, so I was joking and saying something and I made a comment that was like, why you over hoe azz nyggas houses. And she was like shut up boy, you drunk. So after a while, I start to hear the dude in the background cursing....so I was like, hold the fvck up, is ol boy talkin to me..... and I hear her saying where I was at, and then he kinda calmed down a little, so I just continued talking about some other shyt....so after a while, the nygga starts talking shyt again, so I busted on his azz and said motafvcka you got somethin to say say it to me bytch, and when I get out there I m gon kick yo azz....so she says, I will call you back.....and she has been calling me every night since then, but I didnt answer the phone....now, I believe I already know what I should do in this situation, I believe that I should stop talkin to her, because I kind of feel like she betrayed me and kinda took his side a little, you feel me? And this dude over here was talkin shyt, I kinda feel like, just to be real, that I kinda started it, but still, nygga dont be talkin shyt bout me....so I am just askin what some of yall opinions is, and please, no dumb azz comments.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

COME ON NYGGAS, ANSWER ME, FEEL ME

 

[Mr. Cardio]

ANY NYGGAS

 

[TheInfamousCBear]

Its a wrap for you...Stick a fork in yourself cause youre done, b...

 

[Mr. Cardio]

C...Bear, I said no dumb comments, remember, I have full control of this situation, I am not there, so she cant fvck me....I dont care if she fvcks other girls cause I do to....i just wonder, should I cut her off, simple as a pimple dawg.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

hey yo, if somebody can give me some insight that would be fine, thankssssss

 

[lordson]

mate, its a little hard to take u serioulsy, let alone understand you when youre typing like that

from what i gathered, jsut have sex with her if u want and leave without any hard feelings

 

[spider_007]

I’m no "nigga" but I’ll make a comment anyways

So you lost control and started making useless threats over the phone???? nice job

Ho is a ho. There is noting you can do about that. You want someone who is LOYAL; get a dog (a real dog, not a guy who calls him self a dog ). The ho was talking to YOU. If she didn't want to talk to you, she would give you hints like: "I’ve got to go biach, now hang up the phone and leave me alone with my suga' daddy...". This was a poor way of dealing with the guy. If the guy is making fun of you and **** blocking you, you return the favour. You show that you don't care about his opinion and you ridicule and make him feel ashamed in front of the woman.

Threatening people is useless. Both people end up looking purity stupid. When dealing with people like this there two ways of doing it. You’re either ridiculing them (making fun of them) or you are standing over them with your foot on his face. NO THREATS.

Why do you care who the ho is fvcking. From what i understand you wanted to do a hit-&-run anyway

The ho is probably calling you to make sure you don't show up at her hous with a bat. Nice going. Find out wha the ho wants and go with the flow.

 

[Mr. Cardio]

spider that was real, can you give me some examples of how, say I am wit a bytch, and a nygga is hating, becasue usually I would get kind of pissed and peopel would have to separate us, because I dont want nobody dissin me, you feel me? But I see others guys just laugh at the other dude, and stay cool, and make the other dude look like a hoe-azz nygga in the process, so how do I riducle....I aint good with jokes, you see? haah

 

[amano]

Sorry I cant take anyone seriously who goes from talking normally to "the nygga starts talking shyt again, so I busted on his azz and said motafvcka you got somethin to say say it to me bytch, and when I get out there I m gon kick yo azz...."


Ever watch Malibus Most Wanted?

:crackup:

 

[Morphiex]

seriuosly dude no dissrespect , but u got to cut the nigga talk out ..... first of all where u from ? second of all if ur a white wanna be wanksta please stop talking like that ....
Ive seen tooo many white middleclass guys going around in baggy clothes talking all kinds of smack and **** cuz they think they look cool , while in fact they look really depressing and make me wonder what the f is wrong with them ...

 

[spider_007]

well first you need to BE CALM. haw do you do it? well here it is

He is just another guy, right? You don't want to fvck him (from what i can tell), You don't wan't to be buddy/buddy with him right (he is being a total idiot after all)? SO TO YOU HE IS USLESS (his opinon does not metter). So why would you care what he thinks. <---Read that a few more times, slowly (and think about it)


So when he saiz: "tell that boy to shut it", you can laug:crackup: because he is insegnificant. And if he persists, make fun of him back (but not directly to him, don't agnowlage him his existance, focus your attention on your lady friends).

say something like: "is he like that always", "i see his moma didn't teach him any manners"

the way to do it is; you wana go for inside jokes (something that only you and people you with understand and he doesn't (that's one way of isolating him form the group). You don't want to insult him (ok maybe just a little bit) but you do want to have a good funny comeback (it all depends on the situation).

Also, it's a good idea to put you insecurities on the side and take a joke (if someone is jocking about your carrector)

eg:

guy 1) y'o bro, i've never seen a lazy eye like that, quit staring at my ass
guy 2) no, i actally got one eye on that nasty zit growing on your shoulders and another on this chics boobies.

go with the flow, have fun with it. Unless you ARE going to smash his head in there is no reason to get into a "coock fight"

 

[Mr. Cardio]

aight spider, that was real, and that can help me realize, because I am not really the fighting type, but I dont wanna be walked over either, your reply explains a lot and it was helpful, by the way, I am black, and I do understand the poster who said about white guys acting black, but hey, if they grow up around them, I guess thats how they act, but I dunno. Whether you act black, white, or chinese, if you can seduce a woman you can get laid, and if you set your minds on your goals, you can achieve success in life....so just do you.

 

[spider_007]

I don't know haw we got into the race thing, but just to clarify; i'm white as they get

me acting like a thug would be like putting a wig on a donkey, it just looks rediculis. I do like some rap and hip (i love dmx, and have a lot of respect for 2 pac) but you'll never see me with my pants half way down my ass.

it's my opinion, there is no such thing as "acting black" or "acting white". If your a white boy who is dressing hip-hop or a black guy who wares a suit as long as your being your true self, i don't have a problem.

that said i do have a problem with "thug wanabe" people. If you gave them an ak-47 and told them hold it, they would **** themselfs scared. Fake dumb ass bi*ches:box:

 

[comote]

Cardio,

I think you need serious professional help. You are all over the place.