"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Let chicks live their delusional fantasy fairytale lies.

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Let these chicks of 2012 and beyond live their fantasy fairytale Hollywood/media induced lies and continue to act like spoiled, selfish little AWing princesses etc.

The key to dealing with ANY of them is to play the "I believe everything you say" game at all times without being effected by either positive or negative outcomes. You simply must internalize the fact you cannot control anyone. Some chicks will pick up on it. Keep it up though. For the ones who don't your solution is simple. No contact.

Keep it Zen like and in control of your emotions at all times. Either a chick will shape up on her own like a big girl or she can weed herself out of your life while you are unaffected and keep it complete no contact. There should be no time for you to bother with dead weight.

Most chicks wouldn't know a real man if he was in front of their face let alone have a clue of what they really want.

They may never say it but if you show you are uneffected by their nonsense even if it's positive for the moment in your favor it will tick in their subconscious and perhaps one will act on being with a real man otherwise let them carry on with the nonsense elsewhere.

Just keep in control and play the I believe eveything you say game. Actions speak louder than words. Yours should as well.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You've been hurt, haven't you?

PS - Does anyone else wish NN would drop this boldface crap and just type in the regular font?

It makes me wonder if, when NN talks, he stresses every word.

Example: instead of saying "I like boldface" or "I like boldface", NN would say (in real life) "I... like... boldface...".
 

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bigneil said:
You've been hurt, haven't you?

PS - Does anyone else wish NN would drop this boldface crap and just type in the regular font?

It makes me wonder if, when NN talks, he stresses every word.

Example: instead of saying "I like boldface" or "I like boldface", NN would say (in real life) "I... like... boldface...".

Hahahahahaha!!
 

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You make a solid point NN...can't deny it...women these days need to learn their role and shut their mouths...its not even misogynistic to think this way...we ****ed up when we allowed the role reversal...

On the flip side the true DJs can game the system, learn it and use it to their advantage...if you suck then you are really ****ed...but if you retain control and peace in your life while gaming women, you reap the massive rewards
 

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bigneil said:
You've been hurt, haven't you?

PS - Does anyone else wish NN would drop this boldface crap and just type in the regular font?

It makes me wonder if, when NN talks, he stresses every word.

Example: instead of saying "I like boldface" or "I like boldface", NN would say (in real life) "I... like... boldface...".
NN has gotten me more action than the town wh0re. If he wrote an autobiography, women would deep throat it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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InnerHappiness said:
NN has gotten me more action than the town wh0re. If he wrote an autobiography, women would deep throat it.

I haven't gotten you anything. You've done it on your own. Dudes just need to take advice that works for them and put it in practice.
 

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In10se said:
You make a solid point NN...can't deny it...women these days need to learn their role and shut their mouths...its not even misogynistic to think this way...we ****ed up when we allowed the role reversal...

On the flip side the true DJs can game the system, learn it and use it to their advantage...if you suck then you are really ****ed...but if you retain control and peace in your life while gaming women, you reap the massive rewards

It's actually better the more they talk the more you listen and pay attention to see if they match their words while you nod,smile and 'believe' everything they say till they prove otherwise. Unfortuantely most will prove their words are just words. Live your life for you the best you can. Fvck the PUA/DJ ninja tactics. Tons of normal everyday dudes go out meet chicks and get dates/girlfriends etc and have never visited or heard of SS. The only one up is posting here and learning to deal with the nonsense chicks will 'attempt'.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
I haven't gotten you anything. You've done it on your own. Dudes just need to take advice that works for them and put it in practice.
Quit trying to seduce me you sIut
 

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bigneil said:
You've been hurt, haven't you?

PS - Does anyone else wish NN would drop this boldface crap and just type in the regular font?

It makes me wonder if, when NN talks, he stresses every word.

Example: instead of saying "I like boldface" or "I like boldface", NN would say (in real life) "I... like... boldface...".
Dont tell me..you havent been hurt? Despite the bold..he makes valid points
 
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