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Let’s Talk About Sex: A guide to keep 'em coming back

GrowingPains

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Gonna dump some thoughts about how to sex the ladies in here. Not organized. Just going for it. This ones for the fellas that want her to keep coming back and enjoy seeing her squirm, taking it from her and then giving it to her harder. Damn we giving away tips already, let’s get right in.

When a girl is in my bed I have one goal: for her to have an orgasm. Okay I lied, two goals.. I’m trynna bust too. But even if I don’t, goal 1 is #1 because I know if we achieve or get close to that.. she’s coming back.

Think about it like this.. there are many guys who try to fvck like the average porn star. The issue wi Th that is that’s their entire routine. No foreplay. No teasing. How’re you gonna bake cookies with a cold oven fellas? So if the majority of guys are doing this, think about how many sexually frustrated women there are. If you even try to give her an orgasm you’re a diamond in the rough. If you found someone that tried or even successfully made you climax, especially if it was rare, wouldn’t you want to keep coming back? That’s what we want, plates. Make them wanna come back.

Alright so she's in your room. You look into her eyes, walk up to her, and give her a kiss. Slowly wrapping your arms around her body/face as you connect those first few kisses. You dog. Give her a minute or so more of that while caressing her backside. Back, ass, neck, back of legs. Now ramp up the kissing intensity.. push her on the bed. Pick her up and throw her on the bed. Pick her up and carry her to the bed and lightly set her down with your hand on her back to control the descent if you're strong enough. Pick one of these depending on the mood. Look her in the eyes with that look that says 'I'm the fvcking man and it's about to go down'. Kiss some more. Varying the intensity. Slow, fast, bite, fas- slow- keep 'em guessing, fellas. You know the drill, well at least now you do.

Let that go on for about 5 mins max, all the while caressing the front side of her body now. But don't forget about the back side too, Touch the back of her thighs. Grab 'em. Stroke them lightly. Dig into them with your finger tips. (in that order, do more aggressive things after she's been warmed up to your lighter touch). But after 5 minutes, move to the neck. Oh sh!t. The neck. If there's anything that girls like other than their lips, and yes I mean both, it's the neck, the ears and the nipples. When you go for the neck, pull away from kissing her lips slowly. I usually give her a nice slow lick with the tip of my tongue then follow up with deep kisses along the line I just made. If you're able to identify the muscles in her neck with your tongue, lick them harder. Flick your tongue on them while applying pressure, they tend to love that. Especially on the muscle right above the collar bone that connects the neck to the trap. Throw in some light biting here and there, maybe even a hard one but I'd reserve most of those for when you're banging her brains out. When it's wet enough, blow cold air lightly then warm air. I blow the cold air first to make the warm air feel even hotter. The same technique can be used on the nipples, but that's not all there is to it with the nipples. They're quite complex, as are women's bodies. So you have to be willing to be curious, investigate and listen to her feedback. She probably won't tell you 'that feels good' but her body will. She'll breathe heavier, nipples will firm up in response to certain things and she'll squirm a little. Those are cues to keep going.

Don't just go straight for the nipples though Go from the neck to kissing her body. Run your tongue up and down her sides a couple times. Stick your tongue inside her panty line.. slowly, as if you just can't wait to go down on her. But after doing that a few times, go up to the tits. Kiss the whole thing. DO NOT immediately lick her nipples. Make big circles around the boob with your tongue. Apply pressure to her upper pec muscle with your tongue. Grab the other, and maybe even the one you're kissing, boob with your hand. Grab that sh!t like a man, don't be scared. Move on to the other boob and get that one warmed up the same way, keeping in mind we haven't even gotten to the nipples yet. Start to graze her nipples though. Like lick or kiss them barely, on purpose. Let's call it... a near miss. Your goal is to tease her. You want her to think you're going to lick them, because she wants it, but don't give it to her yet. But when she's begging for it, moaning, squirming, go in for the fvcking kill, champ. Dive in and kiss it deeply. Circle the nipple with your tongue - play with the speed. Oh, somewhere like a paragraph ago you should've started rubbing her inner thighs and putting pressure on her cl!t over her pants. Pro tip: you gotta really apply pressure on the vagina when she has pants on. Basically grab it and really rub hard. Not violently hard but you need to apply pressure because pants really take away sensitivity. And before that dry humping her while you were kissing her neck. I mean whatever you can do these things in any order but I'm just giving a guide. Okay back to the nipples. Even if it's your first time meeting her.. don't be afraid to feel her out. Bite lightly. Bite hard. See how she responds.

Alright, I've gotta get to work so I'm gonna speed this up. Give her head. Unless she just showered, has a perfect diet, or works out a lot... she prolly gonna have a lil smell. If you can stand it, man up and get the job done. I understand some people don't want to be 'emasculated' or whatever else, but c'mon man... this is literally the best way to get her to orgasm and like 80% of the female population needs cl!toral stimulation to do so. You can use your finger, but you're going to need to have done foreplay to get her wet so you can use that as lube. Anyways, if you want her to keep coming back, dive in. Kiss her inner thighs first. Lick the crease of her inner thigh where it meets the pelvis. Hover over the cl!t. Kiss right above the cl!t. Be a tease. Make her squirm, G. And just as before... when she's begging for it, give her a nice, slow, firm lick with the fattest tongue you can make from vagina to cl!t. Then make out with the cl!t. After that... do your ABC's on the lips of the cl!t. The idea here is to keep her guessing. She won't know you're doing the alphabet, she probably doesn't even care. All she knows is that you keep making her tense up with all these weird, light motions you're doing. After about 10 letters... back to the cl!t. Figure out what pattern she likes. Circle around the cl!t with the tip of your tongue. With the middle of your tongue. Flick up and down lightly. Flick up and down firmly. Side to side. You gotta figure it out. Again... her body will tell you which one is right. Stick a finger in after you get her going and just go back and forth. Doesn't need to be deep, but it can later. Literally just explore her vagina. A general approach would be do do the 'come here' motion inside her. Do it with your palm facing up, to the side, down. Something I discovered last night is that you can pinch your ass while you're fingering them. Use your middle finger to finger and grab the ass cheek with your index and thumb. And if you're really talented you can continue licking her cl!t during all of this. If your arms are long enough.. reach up and play with her nipples. Throw in some choking during this. Remember to mix up all the techniques and keep em guessing. Kiss the neck, back down to the vagina, up to the nipples, back to the cl!t.

It's a lot of work, but if you can pull it off.. she's all yours, champ.
 

GrowingPains

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Now a few words on fvcking. Since I'm going to try to be brief here, I would say that two porn stars that embody what I'm saying here are Owen Grey and Manuel Ferarra. The women in their videos are literally losing their minds and you can tell it's authentic. Now, we've done all this foreplay. She's warm, she's ready. You've shown her you're both a thorough and exciting lover by being gentle, grasping firmly, paying attention to detail and giving her a little danger (biting, pinching, choking) here and there. But now we're gonna take it to the next level. Whatever position you start in, start off slow. Feed it to her slowly. Romantically, even. Touch her body while you introduce her to your member. Fvck her slowly. And deeply. Give her every inch. Now start ramping up the speed. Grabbing her body firmly with your hands and working your way to grabbing her neck and choking. I haven't met a single girl that doesn't like to be choked or spanked. So don't be afraid to try, just research how to do it correctly. Alright now you can do that porn start fvcking. Still give it to her deeply and as fast as possible. Choke her. Grab her tits. Pinch her nipples. Bite her neck. Rattle her walls like a fvcking battle ram. But do it with rhythm and really connect each thrust, don't just rabbit fvck her. Sustain that for a minute or two. Slow down.. back to slow long strokes... don't bust yet, we have more work to do soldier. Let her ride you if you need to catch your breath. One girl asked me if I could pick her up from the position where she was on top and just flip her over while staying inside her. You can try that if you have the strength. Of course I did it, I'm a man of the people. Okay so if you haven't busted yet and you manage to get her in doggy style... pull her hair. HARD. And beat that sh!t up. Grab her ass, stroke it and then spank it like she needs to be punished. Obviously feel this one out. Do a light slap.. then increase the intensity until she moans. Give one on one cheek. One on the other. String a few together on one cheek. Fvck her like you're trying to break her. "Fvck her like the little slvt she is". Give it to her slow, fast, and slow again.

Pay attention to your partner. Command her, but listen to her as well. I find enjoyment in her pleasure, it lets me feel like I'm the man. Maybe it'll do that for you too.

Alright boys, get to fvckin'.
 
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