"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Okay so now that I got the mods attentions, can we please update the website so that we can upload larger images? I tried uploading a picture of one of the coronavirus memes and it said it was too large. It was a low-res choppy picture that really shouldn’t have been.

This isn’t the first time I had this issue before, and I think many other people have had this happen to them before too. It’s happened again and again on pictures that it shouldn’t have happened to. Not just that, but I swear that it’ll upload larger pics sometimes, and then other times it won’t. Is it something with the servers or just the website format? I know that you guys don’t really have much power over that, but I’m just wondering what the big guy upstairs says.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There's a file size limitation. Some large (as in many pixels) images may be compressed enough to have a small enough file size, while some small images may have little to no compression and have a too large file size to be uploaded. This limitation is there to manage server storage space and there MUST be a limit, else someone could simply fill up the server by uploading a several gigabyte large image.

You can get around this by first compressing the image you want to upload. It may slightly affect the quality, but for most cases the image is still usable for what you intended.

You can compress images using most image editing programs/apps and there's easy to use online tools for it such as this one. It will drastically reduce file size with minimal compromise to quality.

The so-called low-res meme you tried to upload may be an uncompressed screenshot someone made of a severely compressed jpeg, so the image file takes up too much space.

Edit: an image being too large doesn't refer to pixel size, only file size.
 
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I'm glad that political postings aren't being as discouraged and personally, I wish that there was a little more leniency.

My reason is (I believe) quite valid.

The commercial (and underwriter) networks tend to be more opinion based and skewed.
Although many forum postings contain opinions, there's enough contrast between the forum members to offer the reader more thought variation ... which broadens our ability to think about a topic on many levels.

As for image reduction, for about fifteen years, I've been using a free photo editing program called "Irfanview." It's totally free and user friendly.
 

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This is how I paste huge images:

Either upload the image to any place that will take it.

Or, find the existing image, and right click wherever it is and choose "open image in new tab" so you see only that image.

Then copy that url, and on sosuave, click in the image icon (to the left of the happy face) and paste the image there.
 

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3. In your SoSuave post, type: [ img ] without spaces, if I type with spaces here it becomes code and invisible
Guess I'll share another tip then :)

You can write the tags without them turning into code by escaping them first. You du this by using the [PLAIN] tag.
So you do [PLAIN][IMG]someurl.com[/IMG][/PLAIN], which will give you of course [IMG]someurl.com[/IMG].
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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