"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Lessons I've learned.

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1.) People who cant do something themselves, will try and put you down and tell you cant do it.

2.) Rumours and gossip spread fast. Dont believe everything you hear.

3.) Not everyone will like you. Stop trying to please everyone you meet. It just isn't going to go well.

4.) Moving on from no. 3, stop trying to impress everyone. Stop caring about people's opinions. Not everyone will love you, and in the end, the facades you put on for yourself only break down eventually.

5.) The people around you might be nice to your face, but everyone has a dark side, and alot of them might actually dislike, hate or despise you. Learn to put trust in only those you can rely on.

6.) Schoolwork and your grades are more important than any idle chatter, no matter how tantalising it might seem.

7.) A bad rep is a hard rep to get rid of.

8.) Confidence in yourself, and self-trust and self-competence, is more important than any friend you might have.

9.) There's more to life than popularity, women and impressing the people you perceive as cool.

10.) People at 15/16 are very gullable. Take everything with a hint of salt

11.) I may think I know alot, when in fact I know pretty much jack ****. I may think I can do this or that, when in fact, I cant. The ego is big, and needs to be put under your control, before you become an arrogant self-ass-kissing ****wad.

12.)In then past, the present and the future, the only constand was/is/will be me. Learn to love yourself, 'cos if you cant, no one else will.

13.) There's a time and a place for pissing around. Lessons aren't it.

That's just some.


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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good post! Very true. The only thing I would like to point out is that I wouldn't advise people to take number 5) and think that everyone is bad. Although if you take the rest of the advice it might not matter.
 

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Good post! I only read to nr. 3. :DWill read rest later!

Anyways, "not everyone will like you", that is absolutley true, but don't let THAT self limit you now! Don't be like : He's just one of those who will NEVER like me. Dj's don't have none of that crap.

Even if he doesn't like you, you'll know you're a dj in that time where you just don't want approval, and you show higher value without even trying, and he'll actually may try to get YOUR approval!

I've been in this situation myself. Even if i didn't like said person, the pressure and all was killing me, and I "acted wierd". Dj's have a way to put pressure, I'm sure you all understand what I'm talking about. You just feel you're being judged and for some reason you think their aprpoval matters.

That's of course and irrational belief, and you'll get over it after spending some time with that person. :yes: (At least for me it usually doesn't take long).

GTG!!!!!!!
 
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