"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lesson Learned: Put YOUR friends first

Silex

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Well its pretty much over between me and the stripper chick, we hit it off really well on the first date. But by the end of the second, it was over and her interest level went from 100-40 in a split second.

The main reason why? Here is a little background on the second date:

1) Called her up for an action date at the gym (LA fitness). Everything went well, but I sensed a change in IL, as the day progressed.

2) Took her to a local pizza place she liked. We ate and had a good time for the most part.

Here is where the trouble begins,

I was supposed to drop her off to over a friends house and then she was going to get ready for "work". From there, I was gonna leave and head to my friends house to go to a panthers game like we planned earlier. I however went against my gut feeling and immense amounts of SOSUAVE.COM training and coaching :) and took the ***** to everywhere she wanted to go. Ended up meeting two of her friends and taking her for not 1, not 2, but 3 drug pick-ups. I know I'm stooooopid. The second friend turned out to be her ex - fling (shes bi, thats i wasted my time with her) and quite hot I might add.

Biatch (both of them infact) was a straight up coke addict. With made emotional baggage to boot.

Predictably, my friend was pissed for me standing him up, so much he sent me a text message saying something to the effect of... :cuss:

And yet it gets better, as a result of my brief regression into AFCdom, the biatch of course responded by selecting me as the number 1 draft pick for the (NSCLL) - NO SEX GETTING CHUMP AND LOSER LEAGE

The moral of the story is to not let any female you barely know come before you and your friends. There are exceptions of course, but this should be a general rule.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Desdinova

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Life experience is indeed the best teacher. It's good you're learning from it.

Personally, everyone including friends and relatives have to earn their way into my priority list. I would easily cancel dinner plans with my parents to spend time with a good friend. However, I wouldn't cancel dinner with my parents to spend time with a woman I barely know.
 

Kerensky

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Thank you for sharing your experience with us. We can all learn from it. As for the bizatch, you obviously have skill to pull a hot girl, so keep on sarging. :up:
 
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