"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lesson for a life or my story

OsirisII

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So I recently broke up with my gf. Second and last time.
Why is this a life lesson? Let me guide you through my life...
So we was together for something like a year. I was youg, stupid, and loved her. She pushed me to make a child i resfused. Then she finnaly earned what she wanted. I wish someone would come at that time and kick me into bals so I can't use them.
Anyway thungs happened and she left country and went to homecountry because of reasons. In this time she didn't worked and totally relayed on my income and my money. I said ok you will have my child so why not. But it was a mistake.
Anyway child was born and she was sitting at home again my money blah blah... Last year we broke up because she wanted marriage and I dint. It lasted for few weeks. I got laid in between. Then she realized that without my support cant be. So she 'visited' me with child. He melt my heart. They were here for 3 weeks. We made agreement that she will return in end of year. Fast forward now I mooved out from house because her mother came and pushed things. It would happen sooner or later.
Now I live at friends house with debt for few years. So never ever get back to a woman if you broke up.

And fellow senior and master DJs I have a question to you. How to get chiks without money(I will have some spare but not mutch like 50€ monthly ). I know i sould get clothes and stuff but I also want to get laid. My debt will end in like 4 years from now .
Thank you for reading and and answering.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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searching solace

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Was she Asian by any chance? The fact that her mother got involved and put pressure on the situation sounds like it.

Anyway, I suppose don't go chasing after gold diggers and maybe don't bring up your money issue at all... But don't you have more pressing matters to be saving for, such as child support and stuff?
 
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