"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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booty-naughtyness-spur

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actually, i've heard that too... it's because of the water.

no... really

think of all the women in the us who are on birth control (estrogen). all these women are drinking water and urinating... now, water purifying plants do not remove the estrogen. so you're drinking a higher level of estrogen then our fore fathers.

so literally, it's the water.

buy bottled.
 

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Yeah, piss in the water, why don't you. Some people have no manners...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by booty-naughtyness-spur
sorry man. it's women on birth control you should blame. i'm not contributing to that thank-you-very-much... ;)
Is this because you let any random guy shoot his load all over you?

Sounds kind of slutty... :rolleyes:
 

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Perhaps it is the estrogen in the water...

Or, it could be do to what I like to call supply and demand.

Man these days don't particularly need as much testosterone as our forefathers did. Providers these days depend on smarts, not on how strong you are. We are no longer raising crops, plowing our fields, or hunting and scavenging. The demand has gone down and so has the supply.

Life has been getting easier and easier since the industrial age, I'm sure if they had ways of measuring testosterone back then it would show that testosterone levels in men have been shooting down since then, to the low it is now, and it is getting lower.

But hey, that gives us here and elswhere an advantage of being a rare specimen of testosteronized man, which aids us in day to day business and with the ladies.

Well those are my thoughts on the subject...

Mr. Mystery
 
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