"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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lesbian?

Crazy Asian

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this girl told me she was a lesbian.
i believed her cause she showed me pictures of her and her "girlfriend"
but now some of her friends tell me that she likes me.
the only two possibilities i could think of are
1. that she doesn't want to let other girls know she's a lesbo.
2. she wants to be seen as a challenge to me....but isn't this a weird way to do so?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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PectoralisMajor

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whether she is or isnt shouldnt affect your game.

1) shes a hot chick, your a man with value. go figure !

continue as normal and be flirty, your question will be answered soon enough when she's sucking your c*** :yes:
 

Dragon

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I know lesbians would hate me for saying this, but about 90% of so-called lesbians out there are really bisexual. I use to date a bisexual women and would hang around that community a lot (yes,... they also called it "the community").

Many times women say they're lesbian because they think there's no guy out there that exists that they will be attracted to. When it does happen, they become confused and will say things like "well, I'm really bi" or "I do like guys but I'm more attracted to women", etc etc.
 
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