"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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In college, I have a couple lesbian friends. I dont mean "lets get drunk and kiss each other" girls, or bi, I mean actual lesbians. They're totally cool.. interesting, hilarious people who I love hanging with. they're my good friends who I hang with even in my guy social circle. Thing is they aren't butch or anything though, these are like straight up HOT girls.. like 8-9, just my type, who I'd be totally going for if it weren't for the obvious boundaries... lol.

Hanging out a lot with a really hot girl yet being able to completely look past her as a sexual option is a weird thing, and it's especially interesting given all the seduction stuff I've been immersing myself into in the past year. In a way I think it's bizarrely awesome having a friend who's a really hot girl who doesn't like guys. I've even had guys ask me about them.. it's funny seeing the mix of disbelief, intrigue and disappointment when I mention they're off-limits. Has anyone else had friends like this? It's weird man but I dig it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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And the best part is, they'll help you DHV. It's your own personal squad of wingmen that won't ****block . They're called The Flying V's.
 
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I know a lot of lesbians and they're all so chill. One of my cousins is lesbian and I love hanging out with her, funny thing is she has won a couple of beauty pageants in her lifetime and if she didn't dress and walk like a guy she would look good.
 
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I've had an ex girlfriend that was bi and her lesbian friends are a blast to hang out with. We can hang out play basketball, wii, go out w/e and some of them Look damn good
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I could never hang out with bull dikes, but girly lesbians are awesome. I know one who is cool as fukk. If she was straight I would be all over that.

Actually, my bisexual women friends are some of the coolest people I know. They are OPEN MINDED by design, they don't c0ckblock (matter of fact they are the first to try to hook me up!). Wanna get the most bang for your buck in a strip club? Bring along a girl who likes girls.

And they make the best social proof EVER. Walk into a room with a couple of highly sexual women and everyone will notice.
 
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