"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Colin O'Brien

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In college, I have a couple lesbian friends. I dont mean "lets get drunk and kiss each other" girls, or bi, I mean actual lesbians. They're totally cool.. interesting, hilarious people who I love hanging with. they're my good friends who I hang with even in my guy social circle. Thing is they aren't butch or anything though, these are like straight up HOT girls.. like 8-9, just my type, who I'd be totally going for if it weren't for the obvious boundaries... lol.

Hanging out a lot with a really hot girl yet being able to completely look past her as a sexual option is a weird thing, and it's especially interesting given all the seduction stuff I've been immersing myself into in the past year. In a way I think it's bizarrely awesome having a friend who's a really hot girl who doesn't like guys. I've even had guys ask me about them.. it's funny seeing the mix of disbelief, intrigue and disappointment when I mention they're off-limits. Has anyone else had friends like this? It's weird man but I dig it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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And the best part is, they'll help you DHV. It's your own personal squad of wingmen that won't ****block . They're called The Flying V's.
 
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War Against Betaism

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I know a lot of lesbians and they're all so chill. One of my cousins is lesbian and I love hanging out with her, funny thing is she has won a couple of beauty pageants in her lifetime and if she didn't dress and walk like a guy she would look good.
 
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I've had an ex girlfriend that was bi and her lesbian friends are a blast to hang out with. We can hang out play basketball, wii, go out w/e and some of them Look damn good
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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STR8UP

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I could never hang out with bull dikes, but girly lesbians are awesome. I know one who is cool as fukk. If she was straight I would be all over that.

Actually, my bisexual women friends are some of the coolest people I know. They are OPEN MINDED by design, they don't c0ckblock (matter of fact they are the first to try to hook me up!). Wanna get the most bang for your buck in a strip club? Bring along a girl who likes girls.

And they make the best social proof EVER. Walk into a room with a couple of highly sexual women and everyone will notice.
 
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