"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Legs are STILL SKINNY!!

Wanderer*

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I've had really skinny, stick-like legs all my life. I've been doing pretty hard-core heavy squats and deadlifts for the past 7 months, and sure, i can feel that my legs are bigger and thicker, but theres still just so much more to go!! People say that they are still like 2 sticks, what can I do to get hell big legs?

Thanks heaps, just getting pretty frustrated :crazy:

Edit: And yes i have been eating heaps, 6 meals per day, lots of carbs and protein etc etc, hence my legs have grown, but they are still sticks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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frenchbeauty

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What are your stats on Squats and Deads ?
 

Wanderer*

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I can squat about 6-7 reps with 255 lbs, and deads i do about 155 lbs.
And this is considering i have a tall and skinny-ish build.
 

EFFORT

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Post up your diet and training. How much do you weigh?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I-tallionStallion

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Warboss Alex said:
20 rep squats = leg growth (and overall growth)
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I can attest to that!
 

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Have you done any measurements of your thighs and calves? If so share the numbers here as well as your upper measurements let that be a guide as well to determine if you have sticks as legs as comments from others around you could be just being jealous chumps and just telling you that to mess with your progress.

If you have a picture post your legs only but whats important to me is being proportional as a whole.

LoneSilver



Wanderer* said:
I've had really skinny, stick-like legs all my life. I've been doing pretty hard-core heavy squats and deadlifts for the past 7 months, and sure, i can feel that my legs are bigger and thicker, but theres still just so much more to go!! People say that they are still like 2 sticks, what can I do to get hell big legs?

Thanks heaps, just getting pretty frustrated :crazy:

Edit: And yes i have been eating heaps, 6 meals per day, lots of carbs and protein etc etc, hence my legs have grown, but they are still sticks
 

Quagmire911

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Wanderer* said:
I can squat about 6-7 reps with 255 lbs, and deads i do about 155 lbs.
And this is considering i have a tall and skinny-ish build.
As Kerpal said, something is WAY off.

Post up your weekly routine and diet.

What height and weight are you btw?
 
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Yeah dude way off, but consider yourself lucky. I'm getting sick of buying new jeans where it's near impossible to get an acceptable waist size while having your legs still fit because they assume if you have big legs that you are fat :(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mr.Ruckus same here...

I don't really consider myself big but my bodyweight is now 235 mornings and 240 evenings at 6-2 and my hips are 44 round with my thighs 25 round and my waist has stayed at 34 maybe up from 33.

I ended up buying a pair of Levi's 550's relaxed fit jeans that had a waist size of 35 didn't need it as my waist is 34 but I had to go with that size because of my hip and thighs being big it's hard finding the right sizes and I guess most powerlifters have this problem too.

But if my back problem doesn't get better to where I can resume lifting heavy I won't have to worry anymore.

LoneSilver
 

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You get to walk around like you sh1t yourself too because they make the jeans have a baggy ass as well if the legs are baggy.
 

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are you focusing on the negative?

unlike in life, in weight training focusing on the negative will really get you places. go down nice and deep and nice and slow, even if that means you can't do as much weight

i work out with a guy, i lift much less weight than him but i'm bigger, stronger and more cut and one of the main reasons is because while he is just trying to "lift" the weight i really focus on a very slow, controlled negative

also for legs, i love sprints and upbacks (a football drill - sprinting forward and then backward)

and lunges are also a must, they make me sore as hell, but they are so worth it

hope this helps home slice
 

I-tallionStallion

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Paint this picture for yourself

Nothing like camel toe for men...my balls hate me as my legs grow. I don't have $60 to throw around every month at jeans
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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