To me, Tinder and Bumble dry up super quick in my home state.
When I go out of state for work, I'll have bumble and tinder downloaded just to meet new people or get recommendations for places.
Nothing has transpired on either app since 2019, where I had previous success. It's a bit odd.
But fast forward to the current day, and something about dating these days just feels incredibly "off" to me, maybe it's me?
I feel like the census is that everyone is friendly, likes photos of you on social media, but doesn't always have a meaning behind it.
You might get a flirty vibe, but then a cold shoulder the next few days (as I'm sure all people have stuff going on in their lives) but you really tend to sit on the fence about wondering if someone really likes you, or if you should indeed make a move. It seems to be this back and forth thing with really no result unless you go for it, and heaven forbid, fall flat on your face.
Also, post pandemic, I feel like people just don't want to be bothered by anyone, so even if you strike up a rather harmless, non sexual approach or conversation about something, they tend to give you this odd look like "Why are you talking to me" -- it's as if human interaction is just ceasing to exist completely.
Am I just losing my mind here?
When I go out of state for work, I'll have bumble and tinder downloaded just to meet new people or get recommendations for places.
Nothing has transpired on either app since 2019, where I had previous success. It's a bit odd.
But fast forward to the current day, and something about dating these days just feels incredibly "off" to me, maybe it's me?
I feel like the census is that everyone is friendly, likes photos of you on social media, but doesn't always have a meaning behind it.
You might get a flirty vibe, but then a cold shoulder the next few days (as I'm sure all people have stuff going on in their lives) but you really tend to sit on the fence about wondering if someone really likes you, or if you should indeed make a move. It seems to be this back and forth thing with really no result unless you go for it, and heaven forbid, fall flat on your face.
Also, post pandemic, I feel like people just don't want to be bothered by anyone, so even if you strike up a rather harmless, non sexual approach or conversation about something, they tend to give you this odd look like "Why are you talking to me" -- it's as if human interaction is just ceasing to exist completely.
Am I just losing my mind here?