"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Left text message on Monday Girl still hasn't responded

Emperiorjack

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I tried calling this girl up on monday but she didn't answer So I left a text message . It's wednesday now and she still hasn't responded to it. Is she ignoring me on purpose? What should I do?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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How did you get her number... what's the situation? Hard for us to say, if we don't that she didn't just give you her # out of sympathy or something...... It's been known to happen.
 

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This girl comes into my work every so often. She's been digging me for like 3 years. Anyways she came in one day with a Simple simmons pizza shirt on and she asked me where something was And I helped her out and she said I should come in and see her tomorrow so I did and got her number. Called her up a couple of times but something happened and her mom hooked her up with an employee of her's. fast foward 3 months later she started coming back in again and she came in twice in one day so I knew something was up when that happened. So I called her like a day later and was like whats new and I found out she broke up with her boyfriend I was like thats cool. Then I called her a couple of more times and she called me on friday(sounded nervous) and I told her i was at work she said she might come in tonight but she might be to tired so i said well if you can come in. Needless to say she didn't come in that night and that was the last I spoke with her. Tried calling her on sunday phone rang but no answer. Tried calling her on Monday phone was turned off all day so I sent her a text message. Its now wednesday night and she hasn't tried to reply yet. wondering whats up
 

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Also forgot to mention that she broght me pizza on Thurday and asked for a hug.
 

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I just thought of something her phone doesnt have Caller Id. So it would be impossible to know who sent the text messages unless they left there name right? I didn't leave my name so she doesn't know who wrote them? Im gonna give her a call tomorrow and see whats up.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Emperiorjack
I just thought of something her phone doesnt have Caller Id. So it would be impossible to know who sent the text messages unless they left there name right? I didn't leave my name so she doesn't know who wrote them? Im gonna give her a call tomorrow and see whats up.
I would just wait till you see her again at work.

Don't sound desperate. If she gave you her number then she would be expecting the text. Don't make excuses ...it sucks when you try and work out a girl :).
 

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wait for her to come in again and bust on her for not returning your calls/sms ,

so now you come in when you want something, (cheeky smile) , dont return my calls/sms
etc
 

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whatever you do dont try and 'fix' it. Thats where you will fall into the trap of trying to contact her repeatedly and feel weakened for doing so.
 

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Quit calling her so much, you sound needy
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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