"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Left Brain v. Right Brain

Warrior74

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Take this little test to see if you are more left brain vs. right brain.

Maybe you might need to start developing your right brain skills, they will help out in this whole becoming a better person than your left brain. I can make the dancer turn either way at will.

Try doing math equations then blink your eyes to make it switch to the left brain rotation.

Try concentrating on a happy emotion, or feeling your entire body from head to toe and then blink your eyes to switch to your right brain.



http://www.news.com.au/heraldsun/story/0,21985,22556281-661,00.html

THE Right Brain vs Left Brain test ... do you see the dancer turning clockwise or anti-clockwise?

If clockwise, then you use more of the right side of the brain and vice versa.

Most of us would see the dancer turning anti-clockwise though you can try to focus and change the direction; see if you can do it.

LEFT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses logic
detail oriented
facts rule
words and language
present and past
math and science
can comprehend
knowing
acknowledges
order/pattern perception
knows object name
reality based
forms strategies
practical
safe

RIGHT BRAIN FUNCTIONS
uses feeling
"big picture" oriented
imagination rules
symbols and images
present and future
philosophy & religion
can "get it" (i.e. meaning)
believes
appreciates
spatial perception
knows object function
fantasy based
presents possibilities
impetuous
risk taking
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not only did I see her turning clockwise...

...I couldn't stop staring at her nipples, ass and hips. Seriously.:crackup:
 

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You do realize that popular psychology tends to over exaggerates the lateralization of brain function? There is some truth to "right vs left" brain functions though.

With that being said, I couldn't get her to turn clockwise. ****. That means I got to go crunch some numbers now. I was planning on reading Aristotle.
 

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You do realize that popular psychology tends to over exaggerates the lateralization of brain function? There is some truth to "right vs left" brain functions though.
This is true. In fact, in the last 10 years, neuroscience has been leaning towards more of a "up brain/down brain" theory that's gaining popularity, and many are abandoning the left/right which is 40 years or so old (ancient in terms of science, but probably still has some truth to it)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Bat said:
You do realize that popular psychology tends to over exaggerates the lateralization of brain function? There is some truth to "right vs left" brain functions though.

With that being said, I couldn't get her to turn clockwise. ****. That means I got to go crunch some numbers now. I was planning on reading Aristotle.

if it helps some of these nerds here de-nerdify and try to move beyond logic , thats all that really matters.
 

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I took one of those online tests once that was supposed to determine if I was "right brained" or "left brained". It came out that I was "balanced brained" i.e. the test cannot decide which side I was dominant in.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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It's interesting, I can see both left and right, it usually take me like 10 second to change my perspective of the figure, sometimes longer, lol am I balanced??
 

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i can switch the way i look at it, after a couple second. ;)
quick question: right brain equal right hand? or its the opposite way.
 

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Ah, the right-spinning dancer has a left leg that stretches and contracts like silly-putty. That's why it's instinctively so hard to see.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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