Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Left a note on my windsheild

alphaace

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Ok, so this girl I work with left a note on my windsheild last night. Shes about a 6.5/10, not a hottie but definatly not something to be ashamed of. The note reads.

Hey, you should quit parking next to me. lol Just kidding! Buy you SHOULD call me. =) For now my number is xxx-xxxx, but im getting my phone back soon. I'll give you that number then.

{heart}, Name

P.S. I forgive you for being an ******* to me. =)


As for the ******* part, I kinda yelled at her for not telling anyone she was going on break when we were in the dinner rush.

Its a pretty sticky situation, we work together tonight but shes that good of a worker....more just ignorance then lack of ability, the store manage did a ****ty job of training her. So its gonna be hard to leader her on without pissing off the other employee's with her shotty work.

Im just wondering if anyone has experiance in this kind of situation and could dish out some pointers.


On a side note, just to stroke my ego, me and the night manager had a bet going on who could get her number first, needless to say I didn't have to try to hard or even ask her, haha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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alphaace said:
For now my number is xxx-xxxx, but im getting my phone back soon. I'll give you that number then.[/I]
DUDE! that's the ****ing sexiest number I've ever seen! I think maybe she's trying to give you a hint or something
 

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How much do you value your job? This is just a bad idea from the get go, just playing with fire over a 6.5, not really worth it. You'd be better off using her to see if she has any hot friends. Also if she can't do a good job at work that may reflect on other aspects of her life...
 

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Ok, so yesterday during work I told her she and her friend (which is a 8/10) should come to my apartment afterwards and party with my friends and I. They agreed. After work I call her and her friend is passed out on the couch and she said she would call me when she wakes her up. An hour passes so I call her back and see whats the hold up and she says she still cant wake her friend up and told me again she will call me back. After that phone call I was pretty drunk and lost my phone. This morning I check my phone and have a missed phone call from her and a text saying I should answer my phone and she wants to see me. I told her I was pretty hungover and didn't really want to leave my bedroom.

What makes me dissapointed is that she told me they were both gonna come over and then they drunk so much one passes out and therefor neither of them can come over.

Im thinking about not making any first contact with her and see how she handles it, any ideas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, that's one of the strongest, randomest IOI's I've heard in awhile.
 

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TheEdgeOf said:
DUDE! that's the ****ing sexiest number I've ever seen! I think maybe she's trying to give you a hint or something

^^Hahaha
 

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Sorry for the delay, but I closed the deal. She gave me a lot of IOI's at work so I invited her over and she actualy came over. Maybe took me two hours to get her away from the living room/roommates/her friends she brought over and into my bedroom and well.....yeah

Now the hard(er) part....her 8/10 friend.......mmmmm
 
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