"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Master Don Juan
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I see now that the list thing was a bad idea.
I'm not continuing it.

Its a sign that I've been here way too long. I need to retire.

I've learned that true greatness is achieved outside of the site. I went from die hard AFC to successful LTR Don and thank everyone for that. Not that I don't need the site anymore, its just that I have a woman in my life now who has earned my time and devotion. And I need to spend more quality time with her now. I was a great Don and just didn't realize it. I was still acting like a newbie. I apologize for that.

In any case, I'm announcing my retirement.

Thanks to everyone. Keep up the great work.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Master Don Juan
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Survivor,

ADNF. A Don Never Forgets.

Success!

-Neo
 
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